In His Own Words
About him
I am a warm, passionate guy who loves living life to the full. I love my job - I am a partner in a small law firm in Soho but I enjoy my leisure time too. I am an atheist with a spiritual side. I am Jewish with a proud sense of my identity but non-practising and philosophically Buddhist. I am non-materialistic and consider everything transient yet believe in grabbing every moment and living every moment as though it is going to be my last. I am comfortable with these contradictions. At 50, I finally feel quite comfortable in my own skin. I am confident, good company and generally fun to be with. I love good food and wine, I am a decent cook, I am passionate about cinema, love good theatre, I have eclectic tastes in music from classical through jazz, R&B, soul, indie, rock and pop. I love tennis and skiing. I enjoy reading. I am fascinated by politics and current affairs and love history. I am involved in several charities, mentoring a young person via a charity for young people who are homeless and I am trustee on an anti-racist charity. I am also involved in a not for profit organisation lobbying for a mid-east peace deal.
About his ideal match
I need someone who is ready to share my general outlook on life. I need to be with someone who has very high personal integrity. Beyond that I am relaxed and easygoing.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Haringey (East Finchley), London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye colour: |
Black | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Legal | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 5 miles of postcode district N2 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
45 - 88 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 8" (173cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
University / College student; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A party-pooper |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Half full |
Hair style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Folk; Jazz; Latin; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; News; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
It's a weekly ritual |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Card games; Cooking; Internet; Meditation; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Skiing; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Power; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
