In Her Own Words
About her
(Different corner ....one of my favourite songs; by George Michael)
Public photos taken July 2019 outside the lovely Griffin Inn, Fletching to July 2021 ( pink top)
I won't reply unless YOU have a photo.
PLEASE NOTE.
Until I've fully recovered from surgery ( not plastic!) on 3.2.23. It's impractical to take things further than messaging.
Generally happy and hopefully, good company..
Born & lived in Kent, moved to South London, Birmingham ( still visit friends there & sister in Kidderminster ) Moved to Eastbourne 15 years ago.
Looking for someone whose heart is free and open to a long term relationship ( i.e. over the last one!) "Chemistry" is a must.. NOT looking for a relationship of convenience.
Like: sun, sea, rivers, champagne, red wine, France , dark chocolate, orchids, being in love; passion, trying new things and challenging stereotypes: especially age and hair colour! Love music, listen regularly to Radio 2 & 6 music, sometimes R4.Go to the fabulous Love Supreme Jazz Festival at Glynde every Summer except during pandemics.
Prone to occasional mad outbreaks of dancing in the kitchen... ability sadly resembling Hugh Grant in Love Actually.
Go to body pump classes, yoga, etc at Bannatyne's gym 5-6 times a week to keep fit and socialise.
Dislike: people who take advantage of vulnerable people/animals, meanness, pomposity, hypocrisy, arrogance, racism, arguments
I'm adaptable and flexible - unlikely to be compatible with those who are fixed in their ways, still haven't moved on from social attitudes
of the 70's (especially towards women ), who are
moody, controlling, grumpy, couch potatoes or unsociable.(&, for the two of you left..........)
Not into cyber chat/emailing so prefer to talk initially on landlines, not mobiles, to decide whether or not to arrange to meet..Very wary of those who don't have a landline, a photo or whose main photos are hidden ..why ? I've also recently met men whose photos are obviously years out of date ....😱
About her ideal match
An intelligent, humorous, loving & attractive, passionate, sexy, fun, good natured, physically active man who looks after his health and appearance...if you don't, it's a complete turn off for me..... Someone open to and available for a long term committed relationship - if there is mutual chemistry.
Great sense of humour essential, almost as important is a love of music or at least tolerance of mine!
Not keen on facial hair, especially on men 😉
According to Eastern & Western astrology my perfect match is a Pisces born in the year of the Pig ...1935, 1947, 1959.....pigs might fly
Not interested in "friends with benefits" arrangements, short term flings (unless you're G Clooney, H Grant, M Kemp or Dr M Scott) or "sweet nights" ( if you haven't seen "The Fall", this does not mean sharing a box of chocolates)
Looking for mental, emotional and physical compatibility. Not joined at the hips ( whether replacements or not) but a few mutual interests would be good I.e love of music especially rock, pop and jazz, art, good food, wine and coastal walks.
Well, it does say "IDEAL match" .......I can dream, can't I?
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Eastbourne, East Sussex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
76 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district BN22 (Eastbourne) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
65 - 77 | ||
Star sign: |
Aries; Taurus; Cancer; Leo; Virgo; Libra; Scorpio; Capricorn; Pisces | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 6" (199cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Secondary; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Easygoing; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Outspoken; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Depends what's in it |
Hair style: |
Long; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Romance |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; News; Soap operas; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Reading; Shopping; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Football (Soccer); Martial arts; Motorsport; Rugby; Sailing; Shooting; Swimming; Walking; Weight training; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Jaded |
Honesty: |
Very |