In His Own Words
About him
I am optimistic, enthusiastic and interested in new things and people.
Continually fascinated by human nature but find myself observing, rather than engaging! I usually keep my distance, at least until sanity is confirmed!
Never happier than in nature, doing something fun and active, like cycling, sailing or skiing.
I keep fit and healthy. Although I don't pursue this with excessive zeal; there is a balance to everything. For example, my cycle rides usually end up in a coffee shop, or two.
Emotional intelligence and aware of my inner landscape, having practiced meditation for many years but feet firmly placed in the real world. Self-development is the main theme in my life.
I'm an engaging introvert, rarely shy having achieved a quiet confidence. I prefer a deep conversation to a party.
I am very happy if you have offspring but don't wish to bring any more into the world! Enough already...
I am not materialistic and avoid arrogant people. I'm a 'people person' and respect others.
I am happy to disclose more in private messages. Just ask...
Friendship is always a good place to start.
Eclectic musical taste. Radio 4 listener.
Myers Briggs: 'INFJ'. This will tell you more about me than I can. It even tells me about me!
About his ideal match
Open hearted, optimistic, emotionally mature and kind.
And honest enough to have a fairly recent photo, this shouldn't be a guessing game after all!
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Guildford (Cranleigh), Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
65 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district GU2 (Guildford) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
45 - 68 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Half full |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
Self-help |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Independent; War |
Interests: |
Meditation; Reading; Voluntary work; Woodwork |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Canoeing; Cycling; Horse Riding; Rowing; Rugby; Sailing; Skiing; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
In the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |