In Her Own Words
About her
A country girl to the core, I lived a lot at my grandparents near Farnham in Surrey as a child as my Mum was diagnosed with MS shortly after I was born.
It was a 'Swallows and Amazons' childhood and filled with love, happiness and beautiful countryside.
I live in a semi rural part of Kent-
I love the logs on the fire and friends round for tea or frothy coffee and home made cake, having a laugh and enjoying lively conversations together. I have a good sense of humour. I am well spoken and I have traditional values. I am a faithful, honest and loyal person.
I am new to internet dating.
I was married for 16 years before my divorce some years ago and I have 1 married daughter.
It is time for the next chapter in my life to begin and I have turned to telegraph dating to hopefully find an honest and decent chap with old fashioned values and a sense of humour. The last 5 years haven't been much fun and I am looking forward to finding someone to laugh, joke, giggle, cuddle and share good times and bad with.
I have not been to a nightclub for many many years, it's not me!
I like to travel and explore new places and I enjoy eating out and I love ice-cream; especially pistachio.
I am a bit of a 'country foodie' and I make my own Sloe Gin.
I only drink the Sloe Gin in the winter to keep warm you understand :~) instead of a hot water bottle!
I miss being part of something bigger than myself and worry that the years are racing by and I am still here on my own just doing my own thing, trying to stay active.
I have several arty, creative hobbies as well as enjoying my garden and growing organic vegetables on the allotment.
I miss cycling, walking and the countryside.
I enjoy photography and I regularly watch movies.
I have always loved cooking but it isn't enjoyable now, 'cooking for one'!
I love music, most genres, especially from the 60's , 70's as well as more recent tunes but not Jazz.
One of the most played albums of all time is Rumours by Fleetwood Mac. I have also loved Pink Floyd, since I was a teenager!
About her ideal match
Honest and trustworthy. Considerate.
Mild tempered please and doesn't use the 'f' word very often as I rarely do.
GSOH is essential.
Ideally capable of stepping forward to kill a wasp if needed as I am scared stiff of them. (I am great with spiders though!)
Enjoys art, design, photography, gardening or countryside pursuits and is a practical and/or creative person with an optimistic and positive outlook.. Able to laugh at self and at life.
A man who is preferably clean shaven and well mannered as well as intelligent and well spoken as that would be a big plus for me.
I hope that my match would be looking for someone special to enjoy their life with.
I would prefer someone who doesn't have cats, they can make me sneeze ☺
I don't find piercings or long beards in anyway attractive, sorry!
(I would rather be up front and honest here and now).
If you contact me but you don't have a public photo, please make me a favourite so I can see your private photos.
All of my photos were taken during 2016.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Medway (Rainham, kent), Kent, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Trying to Quit | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district ME8 (Gillingham) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
45 - 63 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; Regularly; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English; Danish; Dutch; Finnish; French; Greek; Italian; Norwegian; Welsh | ||
Other languages: |
English; Dutch; French; Greek; Italian; Norwegian; Spanish; Welsh | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Hair style: |
Medium; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch news |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Reading; Sewing; Shopping; The arts; Voluntary work; Woodwork; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Badminton; Birdwatching; Bowling; Chess; Curling; Cycling; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Football (Soccer); Hunting; Motorsport; Rugby; Shooting; Swimming; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Green |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
