In Her Own Words
About her
ENFP,half Italian ,bohemian type, perfect hourglass shape,can balance teacups on my hips witty(debatable), slightly eccentric, edumacated and sweet,neurotic,bit of a retard, prone to melancholy,Physically a cross between Bella Emberg and Nigella Lawson.Love opera except awful wagner ones, bit obsessed with Lance Armstrong ,love Alan Partridge,John Le mesurier, Clive James,Christopher Hitchens,Professor Jordan Peterson,Ealing comedies, tennessee Williams, E.m forster , war poetry.and twisted French films where everyone dies in the end .
I'm almost never serious and always too serious.Too deep Too shallow.Too sensitive too cold.a collection of paradoxes,faithful and detached,loving everyone yet loving no one,a sociable loner gentle and tough.Passionate but platonic,in short predictable in my unpredictability
Basically having an existential crisis
Save me from myself
Please lead
About her ideal match
Well someone who undercriticises , over tips and is nice to waitresses, patient, quietly confident,and who will smile at me lovingly after I accidentally knocked over a candle and burnt his house down.I need intellectual stimulation so no golf players, and someone who gets on well with my probation officer☺
I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
City of London (London), London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
49 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Full figured | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Italian | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Europe; North America | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
30 - 83 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English; Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; Finnish; French; German; Italian; Swedish; Welsh | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Melancholy; Philosophical; Quiet; Sarcastic; Shy; Thoughtful; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite colour: |
Gold |
Hair style: |
Curly |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; News; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Never |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I always cook at home |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I'm a student |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time online: |
Once or twice a week |
Family size: |
I don't have any family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Long hair; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |