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Online: Today

About him

Country of origin:
South Africa
Location:
Ealing, London, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
50
Star sign:
Leo
Height:
5' 8" (173cm)
Body type:
Athletic
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Light Brown
Eye colour:
Green
Marital status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never
Education:
University
Occupation:
Arts / Music / Writing
Income:
Solvent
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Afrikaans; Japanese
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 40 miles of postcode district W7 (London)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
43 - 52
Star sign:
Any
Height:
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 9" (176cm)
Body type:
Slim; Athletic
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Marital status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
University / College student; University; Postgraduate; Private school
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Spiritual, but not religious
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

That you for looking at my profile! I'm a youthful, cheerful, optimistic, stable, down to earth, three dimensional man looking for a long term relationship.

I'm interested in the world around me, read widely, have a creative job, enjoy culture high and low, and love good conversation about life, the universe and everything.

Things that make me happy:
being outdoors and active
running
keeping fit
bookshops and markets
rooibos tea
riding my bicycle fast, slow, near and sometimes far
going places by train
fly fishing
trail hiking
carrot cake
Parkruns
nature
books
laughing until I fall over
Wong Kei
swimming in the sea
going barefoot
Moleskine notebooks
seafood linguine
the Electric Cinema
photography
my garden
small theatres
cooking
Miles Davis
rugby
restaurants with only two tables
places with literary connections
medieval towns with mazes of narrow lanes to get lost in
walking and talking about everything and nothing
going into a gallery just to look at one thing
cloud and wave watching
honey

...simple stuff really.

I believe in love, loyalty and doing the right thing. I'm not materialistic and won't suit anyone who is. I like simplicity, lightness and mindfulness.

I actively support conservation projects and genuinely try to live a green lifestyle.

I'm a stable person, my life has structure and my work is my vocation. I'm not here because I'm having a crisis of identity or feel I've missed out and need to ditch everything to go backpacking in Afghanistan.

My top three favourite places are Cape Town, the Italian Lakes and Wales.

London is home for now but perfection would be somewhere combining coast and country shared with someone special.

I love my home town in Cape Town's Deep South and escape there from cold English winters when I can. Would you join me?

I'm looking for a relationship that's for keeps based on compatible and complimentary lifestyles and values and of course lots of chemistry.

All my photos are all from Summer/Autumn 2016 and hopefully show the real me.

About his ideal match

Someone kind, affectionate, tactile and open to love.

The owner of a beautiful smile and an uncomplicated, optimistic approach to life who likes the same kind of things I do.

Someone who is not materialistic and lives life lightly and cheerfully.

Someone who reads widely and deeply and loves conversation about culture, arts, science, nature and shared interests. Not looking for someone to debate current affairs with.

Someone who is inspired by the beauty of the world around us and shares my desire to follow a thoughtful, kind, simple, active, outdoor, close to nature and environmentally sensitive lifestyle.

Not looking for an adrenaline seeker or travel addict. If you are living or dreaming of a high functioning lifestyle of five star hotels, fine dining, luxury travel, fast cars, polo ponies, yachts and other expensive pastimes then I'm not your man.

Beautiful to me is calm and peaceful.

I don't really care about relative heights but many people seem to so that's fine.

So if you would like to meet for real for a coffee, do fun simple local things together, find out about each other, discover shared values, become friends in the real world, hold hands, go for bike rides together in the country, hop on a train to the coast for beach combing and fish and chips, build a story together, be warmed by each others kindness and love, find that we fancy the socks off each other, live happily ever after....

A public picture is a must to start and a willingness to meet in the real world.

More about him

Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Half full
More physical characteristics
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body hair:
Average
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Fashion sense:
Natural (I only wear natural fabrics)
Hair style:
Short
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Favourite colour:
Green
Date activities:
A movie; A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk
Cuisine:
Chinese; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese
Music preferences:
Jazz
Books:
Fiction; History; Non-fiction
TV programmes:
Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife
Movie preferences:
Comedy; Drama; Romance
Interests:
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Photography; Reading; The arts; Writing books
Sports:
Athletics; Cycling; Hiking; Rugby; Running; Swimming; Walking; Yoga
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time online:
I check in once a day
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Dining out:
I always cook at home
TV habits:
I rarely watch television
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Family size:
I'm an only child
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Current relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines occasionally
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Like):
Fish; Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Assertiveness; Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking; Wealth
The deep stuff
Religious attendance:
Never
Dream home:
Other
Politics:
Green
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Optimistic