I believe I have a lot to offer and have reached the stage in my life where I'm ready to follow a new path with someone special. Life can be a mystery at times (to me anyway!) , but I believe most people are searching for pretty much the same things - happiness, fulfilment, someone to love - and to be loved in return. But whatever it is we're looking for I believe as human beings we feel so much better about the world when we have that special partner in our lives. To share things with .... someone to lie next to, to smile with, to talk to .... and to love.
Since 1980 (hard to believe, 32 yrs ago!) I've lived in 8 countries on 4 continents - which has brought me a wide appreciation of the different cultures and customs, and definitely a non-judgmental outlook on life - and people. Also done a lot of 'work' on myself over the years, all part of my inner journey. Quite practical in many ways and am a qualified holistic massage therapist, although my background was IT and finance but now happily retired in Cheshire. I try to keep fit and am definitely aware that 'we are what we eat'!
I believe I'm a loving person who cares deeply about being decent in life - always had a good sense of humour - and an appreciation of the ridiculousness of life. Let's not be too serious about it all; in the grand scheme of things we are all just a ripple in the big pond. But let our ripple be a little bit significant, let it be unorthodox, let it be different - it's so very, very easy to follow the crowd and 'conform'. But I don't think I ever will - I'm a normal guy but I suppose I don't conform to 'normal' patterns.
So if you're searching for someone who is aware, spiritual, warm- hearted, optimistic, non-conformist and a little bit mischievous ... - then please get in touch and lets see what happens .
About his ideal match
Most importantly you have to want to be in a close relationship. Someone who is comfortable with themselves, who doesn't take life tooo seriously - and I know it's a fine balance between defining what's really necessary, like earning money to live and being able to stand back and look at the bigger picture.
..... someone who is sensual and enjoys physical contact, who is 'alive' - and just that little bit different. I don't mind someone having the years but not the 'oldness' (is that a word?) And as we know, it's all in the photograph - I think your eyes have to 'speak' to me.
Someone who is warm-hearted and possibly spiritual, laughs easily (and makes me laugh) - and is not too caught up in the madness of this world. And someone that wants a relationship whereby we become really good friends as well as partners and lovers.