In His Own Words
About him
Hi, this throwing one's bread on the water of expectation is complicated and demanding. Who am I? Well educated, self employed, I solve problems and design IT solutions - for the railway, which inevitably means Engineering, with the big but - I'm not an anorak. That's the starter for 10. But that's just what I do, I'm very self contained, self sufficient, and interested in: Art with both a small and capital A - the Tate reigns supreme with the Affordable Art Fair a must; theatre - any and all with the Globe on a summers day and Shakespeare entrancing; alas no deep literature - I read junk; and music - totally eclectic from trance to minimalist but with an emotional resonance with 'folk' - Bellowhead to Afrocelts with the Copper Family and Liza Carthy, I must also confess to an early dalliance with Morris Dancing, now alas long gone. So interests covered. What else makes a person? Friends - not many and mostly estranged in Yorkshire as I'm still relatively new to London but I hold friendship, real friendship, as paramount as it is built on trust. And, of course the spiritual - values and beliefs: honesty, holding out a hand to those in need (which I do badly), and and emerging identity with the buddhist principles of individual responsibility, detachment and mindfullness. So much for me (oh and I like cooking - and of course eating), what do I want and why am I here on this site? After a long, successful marriage we grew apart and separated to go our own way - without rancour, now what? If I am honest I want to meet and relate to someone on all levels, communication is fundamental and affection is very important to me, love is an aspiration but who knows, nothing worth having is easy.
About his ideal match
Ideal match - totally unpredictable. The key is communication and some shared interests, personality matching is not prescriptive.
The ideal date could range from coffee at the British Museum to dinner at Sketch, a visit to the Wallace Collection or a walk in Regents Park - there are no rules.
What His Friends Say
RobertK hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
City of London (Clerkenwell), London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
75 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Most days | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Science / Engineering / Research | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 10 miles of postcode district EC1M (London) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
55 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Depends what's in it |
Hair style: |
Medium; It has its moods |
Facial hair: |
I have a moustache |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Jazz; New Age; Opera; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
Fantasy; History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch news |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Photography; Reading; The arts; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
Ask me later |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm; Wealth |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |