In Her Own Words
About her
Firstly, please don't be alarmed by the book I'm reading in the profile photo: I don't have dementia - far from it - but can lend it to you, if needs be!
I've been living in London for many years and I'm a writer. I write articles and short stories for a monthly magazine and I also teach creative writing. I love it - big turn-on.
So yep, I'm passionate about words and books, but also friends, blokes, going out, meeting new people, drinking, cooking and definitely...talking.
I have a 20 year old daughter who comes and goes as she pleases and a 15 year old son who spends every weekend with his dad.
I'd say I'm outgoing, good company, and friends think I'm 'clever and witty'. (Actually, forget the self-deprecatory stuff - that's a lie - I like to think I'm clever and witty.)
I'm lucky, I reckon, because I'm as happy at parties, or in a roomful of people I've never met, as I am staying in curled up on the sofa alone with a movie and a bottle of red wine. It's a big enough sofa for two, though...
About her ideal match
There's a spark.
I guess I can't leave it at that, can I. Obviously there needs to be a spark between us, but also you need to have it for yourself and your own life.
I like all sorts of traits and characteristics in men - I love men (generally) and the right body is one of life's great pleasures.
I could do the yadda yadda about how you need to be warm, passionate, funny, clever, sexy, quirky and a little edgey, but if you've got this far reading my profile, I assume you're all of the above.
I'm hoping you are, and look forward to hearing from you.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Wandsworth, London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasionally | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
Ask me later | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 10 miles of postcode district SW15 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
48 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Intelligent; Loving; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Depends what's in it |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; Non-fiction |
Interests: |
Cooking; Internet; Photography; Reading; The arts; Writing books |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |
