In Her Own Words
About her
I am probably most happy when sitting round a table with a group, sharing drinks or a meal, and discussion.
I love to go out with one, two or many more, to a film or a play or an exhibition. Then, again, to sit discussing whatever show over some refreshment.
A favourite film - or rather film of a stage play - in the last year was Small Island,.
I mostly love classic music, and am a Gilbert and Sullivan fan.
And I really cannot stand jazz, rock or most modern music.
I go to yoga - and a diluted form of cricket for the over 50s.
With the cricket I go as much to support the group as anything else. And for the company.
I am not much interested in sport.
By many friends I have been described as kind, patient, good company, an ideas person. And apparently I have said things to some people which they will never forget: things which were insightful.
About her ideal match
Intelligence, imagination, patience, tolerance. Sense of fun!
The ability to discuss and talk things though.
And for me just the enjoyment of talking and sharing experiences and feeling.
And just general talk is welcome - though I am not sure that I would use the word chat to describe any in the range of communication I like.!
I would love to have a partner with whom to share this way of life.
It would be nice to share everything, including Gilbert and Sullivan.
But I am not sure I could share a home with jazz or heavy rock .music.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Kingston upon Thames, Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
81 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 10 miles of postcode district KT6 (Surbiton) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
62 - 75 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 6" (167cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Further education | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite colour: |
Gold |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Depends what's in it |
Hair style: |
Short; Wild |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music preferences: |
Classical |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Painting; Reading; Sewing; Singing; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Dance; Swimming; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
French; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
Socialist |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |