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PamelaThePen

81 – Kingston upon Thames, Surrey, England

My dream is a soul mate . While I’m waiting, someone to talk to would be a good start.

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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In Her Own Words

About her

I am probably most happy when sitting round a table with a group, sharing drinks or a meal, and discussion.

I love to go out with one, two or many more, to a film or a play or an exhibition. Then, again, to sit discussing whatever show over some refreshment.

A favourite film - or rather film of a stage play - in the last year was Small Island,.

I mostly love classic music, and am a Gilbert and Sullivan fan.

And I really cannot stand jazz, rock or most modern music.

I go to yoga - and a diluted form of cricket for the over 50s.

With the cricket I go as much to support the group as anything else. And for the company.

I am not much interested in sport.

By many friends I have been described as kind, patient, good company, an ideas person. And apparently I have said things to some people which they will never forget: things which were insightful.

About her ideal match

Intelligence, imagination, patience, tolerance. Sense of fun!

The ability to discuss and talk things though.

And for me just the enjoyment of talking and sharing experiences and feeling.

And just general talk is welcome - though I am not sure that I would use the word chat to describe any in the range of communication I like.!

I would love to have a partner with whom to share this way of life.

It would be nice to share everything, including Gilbert and Sullivan.

But I am not sure I could share a home with jazz or heavy rock .music.

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Kingston upon Thames, Surrey, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
81
Star sign:
Libra
Height:
5' 5" (165cm)
Body type:
Curvaceous
Looks:
Above Average
Hair colour:
Blonde
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Arts / Music / Writing
Income:
Solvent
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 10 miles of postcode district KT6 (Surbiton)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
62 - 75
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 6" (167cm) - 6' 4" (194cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never; Occasionally
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
Further education
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite colour:
Gold
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Depends what's in it
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; Wild
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Body art:
Pierced ears
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks
Music preferences:
Classical
Reading:
I read books regularly
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Self-help
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News
Movie frequency:
Once or twice a month
Movie preferences:
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Drama; Independent; Mystery
Interests:
Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Painting; Reading; Sewing; Singing; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sport involvement:
Not involved at all
Sports:
Dance; Swimming; Walking; Yoga
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
French; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I'm retired
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Family size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Bird(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Intelligence
Turn-offs:
Erotica; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Politics:
Socialist
Retirement plans:
Pursuing a sport or hobby
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Hopeful
Honesty:
Very