In Her Own Words
About her
Facets of me described by those who know or have known me (in no particular order): quirky, yet with charisma.. accommodating, caring.. oft-wise.. all-maternal, sometimes childlike.. and of good heart.
Love the warmth of the sun, the grit of the earth beneath my feet, being barefoot and bare-faced, childlike and carefree..
Accept me as I am, warts and all.. am uncomfortable with needing to impress or tick boxes before you deign to know me.
Adore hugs and smiles.. A deep sense of connection, of belonging, and of home, are important to me.
I yelp in the the path of those who aggress, control, judge, dismiss or seek to compare and contrast.
I wilt and eventually wither around sceptics, energy-drainers, attention-seekers and the self-absorbed; those who feel the need to be special or better than the rest; and those who love to chat.. companionable equanimitable silence, anybody? ;-)
Saddens me that money, time and the self trump everything else but it seems we're mostly all pretty much trapped..
About her ideal match
Your contentment, welfare and goals would be important to me and, more than just a companion to share your interests, I trust mine to be demonstrably important to you. Thus, beneath the social veneer:
Are you a caring, tender, gentle soul.. diplomatic, and accepting of others?
Do you like being in warmer climes.. an outdoor, nature & animal lover?
Are you dealing well with life's baggage; open and open-minded.. not busy erecting barriers?
Have you identified your true needs, and able to express them clearly.. can you hear and respond when needs are expressed to you?
Are you relaxed and at ease in company.. have you smiling eyes? I need a lightness of touch!
God forbid we actually hit the jackpot ;) .....have you developed the skills to work at 'us', to talk things through and meet half way.. no drama, no tension, no chess moves and so on?
If so, we could become mates in the truest sense.. life is what it is, shall we just go with the flow?
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
City of London (Brondesbury Park), London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Black | |
Eye colour: |
Black | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
Indian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Other | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
45 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 3" (159cm) - 6' 3" (191cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Quiet; Shy; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Celibacy; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Depends what's in it |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Going to the theatre |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Jazz; Latin; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent |
Interests: |
Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Music; Politics; Reading; Singing; The arts |
Sports: |
Badminton; Chess; Cycling; Dance; Hiking; Squash; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time online: |
Once or twice a week |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |
