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Encounters Dating profiles from Merton

Delamor

61 - Merton, London, England

My friends describe me as fun loving, ethusiastic, loyal person who has a wicked sense of humour and a sense of...

Sliderule96

77 - Merton, London, England

I’m a happy healthy mature gentleman. Good sense of humour. I am calm and do not panic or stress. I enjoy art,...

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English_Rose154

69 - Merton, London, England

Genuine, kind, lively, intelligent, witty, compassionate, passionate, spontaneous, young at heart ‘girl next...

SarahA_424

57 - Merton, London, England

I am an outgoing, sociable and attractive woman who enjoys meeting new people, getting to know them and having...

Newcomer2000

65 - Merton, London, England

Ask anything, I’ll answer honestly. Nothing off limits. Recently relocated to Wimbledon from USA, having spent...

FIRSTTIME

67 - Merton, London, England

Wow, how difficult is this, writing about yourself!! Friends tell me I am a positive, "glass half full" type...

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We became "an item" in April and haven't looked back since in 8 months. She had met up with a few people from your site and was on the point of giving up when she had a last chance with me. We had a wonderful holiday together in August - we were looking forward to it so much but it far exceeded our best hopes! Since then I've met her family and many of her friends and got on so well with them. We're due to spend Christmas and New Year together and if all goes well one of us won't be going home as it were.

John, 05 December 2025

I met a lovely man who lives round the corner from me. This was the first person I messaged and the first date I went on. He is the same age as me, attractive and kind, very suitable for me and it turns out we have friends in common. We’ve been in 14 dates together and are now getting close. It’s got all the signs of blossoming into a lovely relationship. I feel very lucky to have met someone. Thank you !

Olga, 08 February 2026

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