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Dreamer47

70 - Kelso, Borders, Scotland

Friendly warm personality. Great sense of humour. Glass half full person. Love to cook but like romantic night...

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bushman1965

61 - Kelso, Borders, Scotland

I'm an easy going type of guy, cup half full in the main. tired of drama so enjoy chilling in the countryside,...

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Sammie

68 - Selkirk, Borders, Scotland

I am a quiet person until I get to know someone well. I have a good sense of humour and I am a very good...

TreeandBeeHuggerTreeandBeeHugger
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TreeandBeeHugger

65 - Kelso, Borders, Scotland

Interesting, active and respectful old school gentleman with a love of the outdoors and natural environment...

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Raspberry

41 - Galashiels, Borders, Scotland

Happy full of Joy and passion Ready for cycling hiking horse riding and travelling in 18 min Mindful and...

Jason2212Jason2212
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Jason2212

34 - Hawick, Borders, Scotland

enjoy watching movies, tv shows and playing online games. Also enjoy being outdoors, whether it is a simple walk...

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