In Her Own Words
About her
I'm fun to be around but take life seriously. Love high heels and going barefoot in equal measure. I'm very tactile, kind and capable but have a shockingly bad sense of direction! Adore my 2 children to whom I gave wings and now they have flown. Lived and worked overseas for over 20 years in lots of wonderful places like the Middle East and India. And Singapore and Montreal. Now fully rooted near Cambridge. I love my job in the Public Sector - trying to make a difference and succeeding some of the time. What makes me happy? Cooking, watching rugby, having friends over, drinking wine, watching a film or playing backgammon. So do family, reading, sharing stories, cinema, photography, music, exhibitions, laughing, gardens (though not gardening so much), spontaneously popping over to Dublin just for the day to have lunch with my family. The idea of a new love after a long time is as terrifying as it is exhilarating and I'm looking forward to hearing from you if any of this resonates.
About her ideal match
Probably someone who has secured his place in the world but is still ready to be surprised by it. Who is surrounded by friends and family who love him and he loves them back unreservedly. Who is honest and kind and can spell! I'm not looking for perfection, just a good, solid, lovely man to fall madly in love with and be with forever.
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About her
Country of origin: |
Ireland | |
Location: |
Cambridge, Cambridgeshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Gaelic / Irish; German | |
Religion: |
Other |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
55 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Half full |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Latin; Opera; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Educational; News |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Documentary; Drama; Independent; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Cooking; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Rugby; Skiing; Squash; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |

