In Her Own Words
About her
A bit of a non-conformist, I am a senior clinician working in mental health services. I was once described as "charming and slightly bohemian".
I like to go to the gym to keep fit and to manage some of the stresses of my job. I've also just bought bicycle and am starting to ride again for the first time in over 30 years. So I guess you could say I'm not afraid of a challenge! I am very excited about the Tour de France coming to Sheffield and plan to watch it on the Cote De Jenkin Road.
Friends would also describe me as determined and someone who works hard. They would also say that I'm a good listener. At the same time, I'm also not afraid to express my own opinions.
If you like rock music and motorbikes, we should get along fine! I enjoy going to gigs - the last one I went to was Black Sabbath. But I also like watching ballet too, so don't be too quick to put me in a pigeon hole.
I'm open to trying new things - as long as they don't include camping in the wind and rain or mustard (yack!)
My children are 19 and (almost) 16, and both live with me. My son has special needs as he has Autistic Spectrum Disorder. If that puts you off, then you would not be the sort of person who interests me, not least as he is the most polite young man you could ever wish to meet. My daughter tells me I can be "a bit full on sometimes, mum!". I am truly proud of them both.
So, that's a bit about me. There's more to find out if you're interested!
About her ideal match
I am looking for a partner who is intelligent and interesting. Of equal importance, I am looking for someone who is understanding and supportive; someone who is reliable, tolerant and patient. However I imagine many people would say these sorts of things. So, to fine tune it a bit further........
If you were a colour, you'd be deep claret rather than pale blue. You'd be Frasier Crane, rather than Niles Crane.
I like men who can make me laugh: I love Dara O'Briain but Frankie Boyle's humour leaves me cold.
It would be nice if we had some shared interests but some diversity would be good too. And you - like me - would also enjoy and appreciate relaxing nights in with a glass of wine (although I know this is a bit of a cliché on sites such as this!!)
You'd be able to put up with me watching Strictly Come Dancing: you might even consider trying out a salsa class with me!
Finally, it's important that you love dogs - or at least Jack Russell terriers - as Spot will have it no other way!
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Sheffield, Yorkshire - South, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 3" (160cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Medical / Dental / Veterinary | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district S20 (Sheffield) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 3" (191cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Black; Greying; Grey; Bald; Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
University / College student; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; IT / Telecoms | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Sensible; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
A leather biker's jacket |
Favourite colour: |
Silver |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Depends what's in it |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; Several tattoos |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Heavy Metal; Rock |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch news |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Healthy living; Music |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Cycling; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Indian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Fire the boss |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Enjoying the comforts of home |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |