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Online: 2 weeks ago

Modified: 23 January 2017

About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Oxford, Oxfordshire, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
64
Star sign:
Taurus
Height:
5' 9" (175cm)
Body type:
Athletic
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Greying
Eye colour:
Black
Marital status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French
Religion:
Ask me later

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 20 miles of postcode district OX4 (Oxford)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
49 - 60
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 0" (152cm) - 6' 1" (186cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Marital status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
University / College student; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

I call this part of my life "happy ever after". I've successfully put my son through school without going bankrupt and I've run a small but highly regarded IT business for a decade. Now I've downsized into my new flat to be near my rowing club and the colleges I now coach. Mortgage free for the first time in 30 years, with a good pension and blessed with good health, I am a happy man and plan to stay that way. You'll find me either on the river or the towpath most weekends and in the gym three or four times each week. I've taken the doctor's advice on healthy lifestyles seriously and while now grey-haired I'm told I look more forties than fifties. I can even cook - ask my son.

I'm CRB checked (I have to be - I also coach children), HIV negative and still have my own hair and teeth. I lack only the special lady who will add a positive feminine dimension to my life. I'm probably not your man if you live (or want to live) in the Outer Hebrides or plan to spend the rest of your life backpacking round the world, but I'm open to new ideas and interested in the world we live in. I'm a published writer and a keen reader - although I still have a long list of books on my wishlist.

I'm looking for a long-term relationship with a well-balanced, positive woman who can hold a conversation and has opinions she has thought about. I also have a weakness for the happy, organised, attractive woman who has a life of her own and enough nerve to get in touch.

If this just might be you then go on, please be brave and make contact. I hope to hear from you.

About his ideal match

My ideal partner would be a positive, active lady in good physical and mental health with happy eyes, good posture and a tendency to smile. A woman rather than a girl, her life has probably included marriage and children, but she has survived with at least a little spring in her step and her own interests and friends.

Physically she will be in good shape, because she cares about how she looks and hasn't 'let herself go'. She'll be able to live happily with me, my sport and my passions for the good things in life. She reads books and can do joined-up thinking. She likes learning new things and may even understand the attraction of Quora.com. She's attractive and tactile and she'll bring a positive contribution and a woman's perspective to my life.

It would be great if she lived close enough to Oxford to make meeting easy. She doesn't have to be size zero, I like womanly curves; but she won't be obese, won't spend every evening watching soaps and won't object to my spending part of the weekend wearing lycra. She may even find laughter sexy (I know I do). If this might be you - do get in touch. Do bear in mind though - and ladies, I'm sorry that I have to write this - if we meet, I will be expecting the person shown in your photographs. If you are posting old photographs (and some - I kid you not, are at least a decade old) I may not recognise you.

More about him

Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Confident; Easygoing; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Optimistic; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Half full
More physical characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Fashion sense:
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms)
Hair style:
Short
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Favourite clothing:
A leather biker's jacket
Date activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Cuisine:
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Music preferences:
Blues; Classical; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; World
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help
TV programmes:
Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News
Movie preferences:
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance; Sci-Fi; War
Interests:
Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Politics; Reading; Shopping; Voluntary work; Writing books
Sports:
Aerobics; Athletics; Body building; Camping; Cycling; Flying / Gliding; Horse Riding; Rowing; Shooting; Skiing; Swimming; Walking; Weight training
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I work part-time
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time online:
I check in once a day
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV habits:
I tend to watch news
Movie frequency:
Once or twice a month
Sport involvement:
A regular competitor
Animals:
I like animals
Family size:
I've got a brother
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Current relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Dream home:
In the city
Politics:
Left of centre
Retirement plans:
Pursuing a sport or hobby
Honesty:
Very
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Curious; Optimistic