Im seeking a genuine older gentleman, pref ex-public school like myself, I'm not looking for someone to travel the globe or go hiking (or fund my lifestyle I'm totally self sufficient!), I'm a horsy, homely lady, I'm laid back, kind and very caring, I'm not looking for a fling or endless dates with someone trying to be desperately impressive, I know what will work for me- somebody kind, looking for real love with a strong minded lady, I don't like alpha males, I much prefer a man who wants a strong minded intelligent woman, I like old fashioned things, cuddling up with a good film, good food in pleasant surroundings (I mean my house), I go to horsy events in summer polo, shows etc, I like NT, water colourist, writer, classic cars, antiques and property interests me.
I'm not easily impressed, I prefer genuine intellectual types who can hold meaningful conversations, as long as it's not about jazz or pointless revolutionaries, I am far right by nature but if you've read this far you've probably guessed that, saying that I'm not snooty I just like being civilised.
I do have a young child, very well behaved, because I am older I decided to start my family, I do not want more children just the one (absolutely no contact with the donor so no baggage), I would like someone to adore us both as indeed we are adorable!.
Currently I have two PT staff a groom and a PA to help life run smoothly.
I am easy going, forthright but not domineering, educated also contrastingly went to the university of hard knocks, so I'm open minded, self sufficient, decent, honest (sometimes brutally!), sincere, kind and generous by nature, I also have a warped sense of humour and I'm probably like night and day compared to anyone else you'll meet!.
(In a non big headed way) I'm just a little different from most women, hopefully in a good way.
About her ideal match
A good husband and father figure, hopefully you'll be retired with hobbies or semi retired, someone exceptionally kind and tolerant (the tolerant part is for me not my child!) you must be older, mature in outlook but able to relax and laugh at my humour (but only if I'm funny or it's just weird!) I'm looking for someone to love, looks are totally unimportant, I'd suit an educated, good humoured chap who wants to immerse himself in my life, I'm a happy soul, unstressful and descent.
I'm used to living on rural estates in comfort and don't want to change my lifestyle, I dislike the city, if you are 'the one' and lived in a city I would only be truly happy relocating to somewhere green.
I have my own small farm/stables/am solvent.
It might be nice to do the odd renovation project together when I'm not publishing my work, I work as and when I choose this makes it easy to dedicate my life to things I want to do-spend time with my child and hopefully a prospective husband.
Deal breaker is a smoker, someone seeking a short fling.