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HilaryAT

58 – Hammersmith & Fulham (Chiswick), London, England

Big on travel, light on baggage - looking for someone to share life's adventures.

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Modified: 2 weeks ago

Online: Saturday

About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Hammersmith & Fulham (Chiswick), London, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
58
Star sign:
Aquarius
Height:
5' 6" (168cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Dark Blonde
Eye colour:
Brown
Marital status:
Widowed
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Several times a week
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Other
Religion:
Agnostic

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district W4 (London)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
54 - 64
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds
Looks:
Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Marital status:
Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days
Education:
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

I have a great life - it's just missing a great man! Most meaningful things are better shared with someone special - but I just don't come across a lot of single men my own age in everyday life. I move in a circle of coupledom.

I'm fun, positive and independent and am up for most things (including trying internet dating!). I can hold an intelligent conversation and have good energy and a sense of adventure.

I'm not into fashion and shopping and if you're looking for a trophy wife, then stop reading now, you're not my type - but I scrub up well when necessary. My friends (I asked them) describe me as warm, funny, generous-spirited and clever....and they said to add beautiful - but they are my friends! I look much younger than my age. At a recent Christmas party someone thought I was the au pair - but not sure if they had their contacts in. This didn't tempt me to lie about my age - trust and honesty are important qualities.

I like good food - and wine - and am intellectually curious. There's not much I can't get interested in. I love being in London for all it has to offer. I have a passion for Ancient History (and like looking at old ruins) but also enjoy contemporary politics and current affairs. My wonderful twins (aged 24) remain a large part of my life although now grown up and making their own way in the world.

Travelling, and experiencing new cultures, is a big part of who I am. Favourites include encountering mountain gorillas in Rwanda; hiking the Inca Trail to see the sun rise over Machu Pichu; Easter Island; the Northern Lights and the Ice Hotel in the Arctic Circle (although crashing through the ice of an Arctic lake on a skidoo was a bit too much excitement!). I have just returned from Iran -my fourth visit. I'm equally happy in a tent or the Four Seasons. And I love skiing. I'm never happier than when sliding down a mountain - preferably upright.

But all that aside, I'm also happy to stay in and watch Planet Earth or Gogglebox - on the sofa with a nice glass of wine.

About her ideal match

Someone intelligent, energetic and kind, who is genuinely looking for a longer-term relationship and can make me laugh.....someone to share love and adventure with.The rest is chemistry. Why we find a particular person sexy and attractive is a mysterious process.

The end goal is to find someone who will think I am the most amazing woman in the world and couldn't imagine life without me - and vice versa.

There are few caveats - apart from sexism. I prefer someone who doesn't take himself too seriously. Also, you'd have to be at least reasonably physically fit. I work out and run regularly.

I no longer work full-time so it would be nice to meet someone who has the time/flexibility to be able to spend some great time together.

I do already have a fulfilling life and a diverse set of wonderful friends who I love spending time with, so I'm not really here looking for more friends to fill my life. But with the right person, it would be great to meet someone who could introduce me to some of their interests and vice versa. I think the best relationships are those based on equal give and take and mutual interest and respect. But there has to be that wonderful spark - and that really just boils down to knowing it when you meet.

More about her

Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Irreverent
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
Opportunity
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Half full
More physical characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Hair style:
Medium
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Cuisine:
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Travel
TV programmes:
Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife; News; Talk shows
Movie preferences:
Action; Drama; Independent
Interests:
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Politics; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work
Sports:
Camping; Hiking; Running; Skiing; Snorkeling; Walking; White water rafting
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at work:
I work at home
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Dining out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV habits:
I rarely watch television
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport involvement:
An active participant
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Family size:
I've got brothers
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Current relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Have):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Turn-ons:
Flirting; Intelligence
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Doesn't apply
Dream home:
In the city
Politics:
Liberal
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Hopeful; Optimistic