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thefiresofporcelain

53 – Derby (E.Midlands / London), Derbyshire, England

attractive, sophisticated but not pretentious, looking for my match

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Online: Sunday

Modified: 14 December 2023

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In Her Own Words

About her

Having been a Londoner for 20yrs, I've since moved up to East Midlands (fancied a diversion and a lure of having a house) but still share my time between the two, and in normal times often go to exhibitions and concerts in London, and stay for longer periods as well, being self-employed I'm flexible and my current location wouldn't be permanent.
I like people who are considerate, with good manners, yet who tend to be mostly informal and chilled out to some extent, and maybe somewhat irreverent. I have my own opinions but I would always listen, mutual respect is important. Wouldn't get on with anyone bossy or arrogant (unless that's part of your humour!)

My interests are mainly in the arts, history of art, architecture and antiques, my work also relates to that, also some of the contemp design. I'm self-employed but I did work for a commercial art gallery in the past. I also need my green spaces and some long walks, and I like good food and an odd glass of earthy red (don't drink daily). It's fine if you drink more but I wouldn't get on with a bottle-a-day drinker! I like a bit of a discussion on all sorts of subjects.

I rather like luxury but 'simple and charming' is even better to me. I'm not the type for adventure holidays in a tent / jungle, a bit of a delicate flower I'm afraid - that's not to say I don't have stamina or joie de vivre..

I do like and 'feel' music very much but I wouldn't want to have a background music on at all times, like some!

I'm thoughtful (too much sometimes) yet I value humour a lot (from PG Wodehouse to Woody Allen to The Fast show etc.) so would love to meet someone compatible on that. I'm definitely not all serious and love a bit of silliness at times.

I'm not originally British despite of the box being ticked, but as I've lived here all my grown-up life (mostly London) didn't want to make an impression of a new arrival!

About her ideal match

Looking for my match to share, support and laugh with. I'd get on with an even-tempered, considerate partner, good manners and humour much valued whether you are 'funny' or have more of a dry style. I'm somewhat old-school (but not formal or inflexible) so wouldn't mind if you are too.

I don't have children, but of course it's fine (good!) if you do.

If you are professionally in history of art/antiques/architecture, that's a bonus, I tend to get on with academics, but I'm also interested in business side of things.

I'm looking for a relationship but I'd be also open to meeting someone to share my interests with.

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About her

Country of origin:
Ask me later
Location:
Derby (E.Midlands / London), Derbyshire, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
53
Star sign:
Leo
Height:
5' 7" (170cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Very Attractive
Hair colour:
Dark Brown
Eye colour:
Brown
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
No
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
Ask me later
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Ask me later

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in Europe
Location:
Within 200 miles of postcode district SW11 (London)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
40 - 65
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 6" (167cm) - 6' 3" (191cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Slightly important
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never; Occasionally
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home language:
English; French
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox
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  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Goofy
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Personality traits:
Confident; Funny; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outspoken; Thoughtful
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite colour:
Purple
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Depends what's in it
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Medium
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Classical; Dance / Disco; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read magazines regularly; I read newspapers occasionally
Books:
Crime; Fiction; Non-fiction; Travel
TV habits:
I tend to watch news
TV programmes:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Art Films; Comedy; Drama
Interests:
Healthy living; Internet; Music; Reading; Shopping; The arts
Sport involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
Aerobics; Dance; Football (Soccer); Ice Skating; Walking; Weight training
Food
Food:
Chinese; French; Indian; Italian; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a week
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at work:
I work part-time
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
The deep stuff
Religious attendance:
Only on religious holidays
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Curious
Honesty:
Very