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Online: Saturday

Modified: Saturday

About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Basildon, Essex, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
47
Star sign:
Pisces
Height:
5' 6" (168cm)
Body type:
Full figured
Looks:
Below Average
Hair colour:
Dark Brown
Eye colour:
Green
Marital status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
No
Want children:
Yes
Daily diet:
Vegan
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never
Education:
University
Occupation:
Ask me later
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
Mixed
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 100 miles of postcode district SS14 (Basildon)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
35 - 54
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 8" (204cm)
Body type:
Average; Athletic
Looks:
Above Average; Average; Below Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Black; Greying; Grey
Eye colour:
Black; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Marital status:
Never Married; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Yes
Daily diet:
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally
Education:
Secondary; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Spiritual, but not religious
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

Kia Ora! I'm a small town Kiwi (we really do have all four seasons in one day!) of Māori and assorted European parentage. I grew up in the Māoritanga (Māori culture/values/customs, lore/spirituality) and still embrace tikanga Māori (way of behaving/doing things) with Italian/French/Nordic influences.

I'm emotionally secure with deeply developed intuition, feelings, empathy and sensitivity. Open with my feelings, very direct with my honesty (absolutely awful with tact and diplomacy!), naturally affectionate, eternally optimistic, smiley, playful, love laughing until my tummy hurts, and often present in the moment.

Being born with Spina Bifida (Sacral) I do things slowly and less gracefully than I'd like. I'm independent (at times use "jazzed-up" crutches/help with housework, etc). My quirky Kiwi (usually quick-witted) sense of humour and gentle self-mocking is often my saving grace when my patience, and Kiwi ingenuity is tested with "Uh oh!" moments and cringing embarrassments.

I can be acutely sensitive to noises/crowds/energies, etc. Aromatherapy, yoga, solitude, and nature re-balance me.

My life focus shifted after a dandy inconvenient accident 6 years ago. Relearning to walk with various contraptions, I resembled something from Science-fiction.

Two of my passions are Music/playing my Cello (play an approximatura or more), and devoting some time to charity with a particular focus on adopting/fostering cats with disabilities.

I speak Māori and Kiwinglish; a distinct blend of Māori/English. Cue some lost-in-translation moments as I forget not all English speakers understand.

I love Pūkekūra park and the Festival of Lights, galleries/museums/the ballet, the ocean/rain, moon/stars, sunsets/rises, being barefoot, gentle hikes, exploring foreign places, and personal growth.

I'm complete and comfortable as I am (I'm fat! 1 Ta Moko). In my Hobbit Feet I'm 5'6", in Shoes 5'7", with enough courage taller on a Ladder.

My singing is a destructive weapon - Apparently!

About her ideal match

You are gentle (not macho), openly affectionate, Emotionally Intelligent/Secure. Emotionally Available/Present/Mature with inner strength.

I'm attracted to integrity, good manners, dependable, consistent behaviour (actions speak louder than words. I want your time, attention, kindness, appreciation, honesty, loyalty, and effort).

(Com)passion (for animals and people) with a quick witted/playful/good sense of humour (not sarcastic/offensive), and respectful of others differences.

Good, open, honest communication essential for developing a loving meaningful connection, and emotional and physical intimacy that is completely satisfying for both of us in a mutually respectful, monogamous, long-term relationship.

You want children (I'm an Angel Mummy).

No rush, I want to feel.

And...Willing to watch the All Blacks trounce your team. :-)

Finally, No Darwin's "Missing-link" found swinging from the Light-fittings every weekend, or addictions to (past/present) illicit/prescribed drugs, alcohol, gambling or smoking, phone/social media.

Casual sex/FWB/Ethical non-monogamy, text/email-buddy are of No interest to me.

A few favourites:
Books/Authors: Frankenstein, To Kill a Mockingbird, The Little Prince, The Tao of Pooh, Witi Ihimaera, Patrica Grace, Ngaio Marsh, Katherine Mansfield, Alexander Dumas, The Night Circus, Tolstoy, Kate Mosse.

Film: Four Weddings And A Funeral, My Old Lady, The English Patient, Clue, Orlando, Suite Francais, Bridge of Spies, Hunt for the Wilder People, Letter to Brezhnev, Mr Vampire, Les Visiteurs, Tais Toi, Mirror Mirror, Color Purple, Chocolat, The Piano, Doctor Zhivago, Indiana Jones, Never Ending Story, WALL*E, Kingsman.

Streaming: (No TV) River, Jo, Foyle's War, Elementary, House of Cards, Line of Duty, Nordic Noir, Marseilles, Lucifer, David Attenborough, QI, Horrible Histories, The Vicar of Dibley.

Art: Art Nouveau/Deco/Impressionist/Tribal.

Food: Vegan (food allergies), dark Chocolate/fruit, herbal tea/Apple juice, Italian Olive oil, Vegemite.

Ngā mihi Māhāna.

What Her Friends Say

GIORGIO said...

It is hard to be objective as she is my cousin and has been supportive over the years she has lived here in the UK.

She observes with her ears, eyes and heart all at once, so very little escapes her and she will speak up.

She freely admits that she is content, although her life is not what she wanted it to be. A significant loss at the start of her career and an accident 6 years ago resulting in her learning to walk again ended it.

She s not afraid to make or admit to mistakes as she believes them to be valuable life lessons.

She is hell to go shopping with as she hates it and has no patience for it.

And she happily inflicts that noise on everyone she calls "singing".

Good luck!

More about her

Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Street Smart
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Moody; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Half full
More physical characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Fashion sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Hair style:
Long; It has its moods
Body art:
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two
Leisure & entertainment
Favourite colour:
Other
Favourite clothing:
My pyjamas
Date activities:
A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Current relationship:
I'm single
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Have):
Cat(s)
Pets (Like):
Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s)
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm
The deep stuff
Religious attendance:
Only on religious holidays
Dream home:
On a beach
Retirement plans:
Enjoying the comforts of home
Honesty:
Extremely