In His Own Words
About him
"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together."
'Oceanchild' - English for Yoko, from 'Julia ' by The Beatles.
My friends describe me as: warm, generous, thoughtful and caring (not looking for a Yoko, just love the words).
I think true romance is about getting to know someone and connecting on a deep level - it's more than just chemistry and attraction.
I love cats, countryside, movies, meaningful conversations, Buddhism (been practising 17 years). I am a novelist, guitarist and songwriter. I love football, F1, video games and am a voracious reader.
You make wonderful eye contact and I know I've been in a hug with you.
Please look beyond my imperfect pics. I am much better looking in person!
About his ideal match
My best friend and lover and everything in between. You are funny, warm, compassionate, intelligent, educated, you love the arts and are a little bit spiritual.
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Norwich, Norfolk, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
6' 0" (183cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Italian; Russian | |
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district NR10 (Norwich) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
35 - 57 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 6" (167cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent | ||
Home language: |
Danish; Finnish; French; German; Greek; Italian; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Romanian; Russian; Serbian; Spanish; Swedish; Welsh | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Patience; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Hair style: |
Straight; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Heavy Metal; Jazz; New Age; Pop / Top 40; Punk; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Religious; Romance; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; News; Reality shows; Soap operas; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Healthy living; Internet; Meditation; Music; Reading; Shopping; Singing; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Baseball; Cricket; Football (Soccer); Golf; Motorsport; Rugby |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm |
Turn-offs: |
Power |
Work aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Dream home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |
