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Hoptimistic

43 – York, Yorkshire - North, England

Music lover seeks Mrs right

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Online: 25 December 2021

Modified: 13 August 2021

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
York, Yorkshire - North, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
43
Star sign:
Libra
Height:
5' 11" (180cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Above Average
Hair colour:
Dark Brown
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship
Have children:
No
Want children:
Maybe
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University / College student
Occupation:
Teaching / Education / Training
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
German
Religion:
Agnostic

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 20 miles of postcode district YO26 (York)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
27 - 39
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 0" (152cm) - 6' 0" (184cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Black
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
Any
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
Ethnicity:
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Christian / Orthodox
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

Hi, I'm an honest, caring, sensitive (all words female friends have used to describe me) 30 something guy. I'm quite shy at first but when you get to know me I'm almost too witty for my own good! I have gone about a big career change in recent years and am loving being a primary school teaching assistant, it's so rewarding. I'm also a music lover who plays the drums and I enjoy going to gigs. Otherwise I like a quite night in with a good sitcom or a bit of sport. I also have a close group of friends whom I try to have a drink with once a week. Similarly my family are very important to me and although my parents retired to Spain, I regularly "FaceTime" them. My sister and 6 year old nephew live nearby so I'll see them one or twice a week too.

About his ideal match

I'm looking for an attractive lady who also has a great sense of humour. It would be good if you have a close friend and family circle too. Someone with a keen interest in music and a gig-goer would be an ideal match but that's just a bonus. Overall I'm just looking for a girl with similar qualities to myself, for dating initially and just see how it goes. Hopefully this might eventually lead to a relationship, which is what I'm looking for in the long term.

What His Friends Say

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More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Quiet; Sarcastic; Sensible; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness
Fashion sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite clothing:
Anything, as long as it's black
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Facial hair:
I have a full beard
Body hair:
Average
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks
Music preferences:
Alternative; Heavy Metal; Punk; Reggae; Rock
Reading:
I read books regularly
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fantasy; Fiction; Sci-Fi; Travel
TV habits:
I watch television every day
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Sci-Fi; Sport
Movie frequency:
Once or twice a month
Movie preferences:
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Board games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Reading; Voluntary work
Sport involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
Cricket; Football (Soccer); Motorsport; Pool; Rugby; Snowboarding; Swimming
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; German; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I work part-time
Pastimes of choice:
Socialising with friends
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Family size:
I've got a sister
Family contact:
I see them as often as possible
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Cat(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Dog(s)
Turn-ons:
Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Sarcasm
Turn-offs:
Assertiveness
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
I'm non-practising
Dream home:
In the city
Politics:
Left of centre
Retirement plans:
Pursuing a sport or hobby
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic
Honesty:
Very