In His Own Words
About him
Wow.... this is scary!
I'm an real person, for a start. I think and feel deeply about how amazing we all are and the wonder of the world we live in. I love people, especially women, and have a thirst for new, exciting, meaningful experiences!
That does't mean that I'm not light hearted though! I bloody love life! I see the goodness in everyone, sometimes to my detriment, but it's not something I'm interested in changing - for trust to have a chance, I need to be open to it and trust means real fulfilling relationships.
I don't play games and I don't hurt or use people. I have an open and fearless heart and value the uniqueness of us all. I don't judge or have any preconceived ideas.
My work allows me to be constantly amazed by the imagination of us all. I help create theatre and art and it's exciting every time.
Actually listing stuff I really enjoy is not really worth it - I seem to find wonder in the simplest of things.
What I don't like is exploitation, human rights ignorance, absence of compassion, lies and secrets.
I'm peaceful, sexy, cheeky, passionate and self-aware with a grounded sense of self and an open respect and acceptance of everyone I meet.
I've got three beautiful children who lift my soul overtime I think of them!
I like tea and big rain and natural smells and elegance (especially in bubbles!). I love driving, I play the piano, I help people who struggle with addiction, I sing in a large choir and I love seedy jazz clubs, especially in New York!!
About his ideal match
I want to find someone happy and bright and youthful and open. I love people who are enthusiastic about life and people and minds and love.
I want an enthusiastic lover and someone to giggle with, swap a knowing cheeky smile with, hold hands with - and kissing is really important! Hugs cure anything!
I find inner confidence, passion, depth of feeling and compassion very attractive and an appreciation for our fragilities as well as our strengths is important.
We are all precious and I want a relationship in which we grow together. Change happens and can rip people apart if it's not done openly and with the other person.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Merton (Mitcham), London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
35 - 45 | ||
Star sign: |
Aries; Gemini; Cancer; Virgo; Libra; Scorpio; Capricorn; Aquarius; Pisces | ||
Height: |
5' 4" (162cm) - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Red | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Secondary; University / College student; Further education; University; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Self-employed; Student; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Media; Consultancy / Design; Home maker | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English; Albanian/Kosovan; Chinese; Croatian; Danish; Dutch; Finnish; French; German; Hindi; Italian; Japanese; Korean; Norwegian; Polish; Romanian; Serbian; Spanish; Swedish; Vietnamese | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Short; Long; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Smooth |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; Opera; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; News; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Reading; Singing; The arts; Woodwork; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Badminton; Cycling; Flying / Gliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Motorsport; Orienteering; Rock climbing; Snooker; Swimming; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
