In His Own Words
About him
I know I'm a work in progress and at one level need a partner to discuss and offer views, to advise, to disagree, to agree. I do not like competitiveness in a relationship, it is destructive. I need my woman to be attentive, and want my attention as I will want hers. She will receive all my love. And I am not afraid to show that love
As I've matured I know that happiness, Integrity, transparency , honesty and trust are the bedrock of a long and successful relationship I would treat my woman as an equal yet understand her little issues, that takes a lot of communication, understanding and sometimes biting of the bottom lip.
I can sometimes be unconventional with my humour I have a soldiers sense of humour, but will always treat my woman as a lady, and set her up to win every time.
I was born in Chiswick to Londoners but moved to Yorkshire when I was six. I joined the Army from school serving for five years in various locations and have ended up working for the last twenty two years in Investment Banking. I have worked at Banks in Europe, the Middle East and North Americas
About his ideal match
I do need a woman who can smile and laugh and my goal is just simply to make her happy, unsurprisingly I expect the same. I have potentially more years behind me than before me and as I mature came to realise while such a little word 'happy' has become hugely important to me. I am a tactile person and love to hold hands and snuggle up, I can feel the love that way!
I am looking for a special, long term relationship with someone who might let me add value to their lives, who needs to feel wanted, loved and valued.
Nothing better than a lovely smile, touching, laughing, I like my woman to be well dressed and well groomed, I love hands and appreciate well looked after finger nails. Being able to laugh at ones self, laughing at my jokes and my attempts at humour. Being supportive when I need it....
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Bridlington, Yorkshire - East, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
65 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasionally | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
45 - 64 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Black | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
I don't have one |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
A leather biker's jacket |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Smooth |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; War |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Board games; Internet; Politics; Reading; Shopping |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Boxing; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Italian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
Ask me later |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
Other |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Doing voluntary work |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
