In Her Own Words
About her
I live life and love it! And if I'm not loving it I have to know why. Right now, life is good, but it would be even better if I had a soul mate, with whom I could talk about anything in our lives, make plans and share memories.
I'm gregarious and at times irreverent, but measured in both. I need some quiet time, but love conversation and am interested in the views of others, curious when they differ from mine.
My drive for experiences has meant that I have studied to a high level and lived in different places. I have a dual nationality with New Zealand. I believe that people share commonalities through attitude and outlook, rather than the activities they enjoy, hence I am deliberately not listing mine!
I can hold prejudice. I confess to finding men who love cats a little odd. But I'm fine to discuss this, work out why and maybe even adapt my beliefs!
Thank you for reading.
About her ideal match
I am looking for a man who makes me laugh. I laugh when I'm happy and in a prospective partner I am looking for someone who makes me feel good about myself and secure. He will be kind and considerate, perhaps a bit old-fashioned in his manners. A good education, formal or self- taught and the ability to form his own opinions are important, as I love to debate and drill down what makes up a person's beliefs and attitudes. So a bit of strength of character and tolerance to challenge is required. But narcissists need not apply! I want someone who is confident about who they are, not scared of difference.
He will value himself and who/ what is important in his life. He will appreciate that I have similar values. And so over time our shared values will enhance our lives.
Finally, if I meet someone, have a few dates and we decide we are not a Dream Team, I'd like to still walk away with happy memories and a sense of having gained something by the experience. My motto is life is 'no regrets'.
What Her Friends Say
Darren said...
My friend is an intelligent, articulate and compassionate lady, capable of leaving you behind with her thinking, when she doesn't allow her emotions to get the better of her.
When she does though, she is empathic, sympathetic and understanding, even though it might seem she has an answer for everything. Her heart is in the right place and will gladly show you what a kind and loving soul she has!
If you can match her, you will have a partner for life: an equal. Someone who will challenge you and laugh with you, laugh at you and at herself. She needs to be challenged too, so make sure you're a complex thinker and not a selfish, manipulative, adolescent thinker who is only concerned with his own well-being.
As an adult, it is important that you know your own mind, and be comfortable with the fact that my friend knows hers.
A relationship with her will be fun, challenging and stimulating.
As I say, if you can match her...
About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Wellingborough, Northamptonshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Medical / Dental / Veterinary | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Spanish; Other | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district NN10 (Rushden) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
40 - 48 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 1" (186cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Agriculture; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outspoken; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite colour: |
Gold |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Depends what's in it |
Hair style: |
Long; Straight; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Opera; Pop / Top 40; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Fiction |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch news |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Gardening; Healthy living; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Chess; Cycling; Dance; Gymnastics; Hiking; Horse Riding; Rock climbing; Rugby; Skiing; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream home: |
In the mountains |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Nervous; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
