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TheFrabjusWidow

74 – San Diego (La Jolla), California, United States

Always worked too hard? Let's both learn about enjoyment

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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In Her Own Words

About her

I've neglected virtually everything in favor of work, profession, business and acquisitions. Even so, I didn't neglect my mind or the expansion of my thought processes. Being alone-ish is brutalizing, reading widely and petting the needy pit bull whose experience at the county shelter demoralized him is just not a substitute for an adult companion. How to enjoy an oceanfront house and be an experimental cook without an audience? I've never had a bad breakup or divorce so I must be a reasonable person. I guess I'm a black widow since I've outlived my husbands. What would I like? A guy who knows who Joshua Slocum is, who can wield a decent grammatical sentence, or perhaps one who likes early morning hours as do I. My outlook on life? I'm involved in a couple of lousy lawsuits which on an interim basis I keep winning and somehow I manage not to be daunted. I have never yet managed to be on my brother's boat as he and his wife travel around the world: always too busy. That sums me up. No, there's a couple of other things: I don't take prescription or non prescription medication, I have been told I have remarkable intelligence, and I guess I'm a bit wily. Maybe also witty. I suppose I should edit all this but again, it's a character revealing moment for you to see that it's going to go out just the way I wrote it. No polishing. Oh dear, I've made myself sound like a lonely librarian. Honestly, I would like to have fun, I'm just not certain about camping in Yurts, or eating innocent worms, or going on ghastly cruises.

About her ideal match

Wry. Given to intuitive understanding of when to make a cup of tea. Kind. A quiet observer of good grammatical rules. A guy with a modicum of modesty. Your career ought to have been important (I ended up as a judge pro tem in the legal field and now work frenziedly in my business) to you but not necessarily to others. I'd like to say in the academic field but I'm afraid then you'd be too political. I'd like to say a committed beekeeper, but then I'd find you wouldn't wash. It's an enigma wrapped in a conundrum for me to know exactly who I would like: Perhaps you should like the New York Times and read it for the superlative use of language among other things. You could also be fond of the countryside, not judgmental and definitely not someone who says "I'd like to walk with you on a sunlit beach." In other words, no trite, politically correct, uber confident men, please. Humility isn't an underrated trait.

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
San Diego (La Jolla), California, United States
Gender:
Female
Age:
74
Star sign:
Capricorn
Height:
5' 2" (157cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Other
Eye colour:
Brown
Relationship Status:
Widowed
Looking for:
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Several times a week
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Legal
Income:
Wealthy
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French; Spanish
Religion:
Agnostic

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the United States
Gender:
Male
Age range:
67 - 70
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Not important at all
Relationship Status:
Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Several times a week
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Executive / Management; Legal; Retired; Self-employed
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English; Welsh
Other languages:
Spanish
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
Time
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Ambitious; Confident; Daring; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Thoughtful
Valued qualities:
Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite clothing:
My Armani suit / My Versace dress
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; Well-behaved
Eyesight:
I wear glasses and contacts
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Opera; World
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Crime; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Travel
TV habits:
I tend to watch news
TV programmes:
Documentaries; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News
Movie frequency:
It's a weekly ritual
Movie preferences:
Art Films; Documentary; Drama; Independent
Interests:
Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Investing; Photography; Politics; The arts; Writing poetry
Sport involvement:
Not involved at all
Sports:
Birdwatching; Hiking; Sailing; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a week
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Hectic
Time at work:
I should have a bed in my office
Pastimes of choice:
Watching TV or a movie
Time online:
I'm online on weekdays only
Family size:
I've got a brother
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Have):
Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking; Wealth
Turn-offs:
Erotica
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Never
Dream home:
In the city
Politics:
Conservative
Retirement plans:
Sailing the seven seas
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic
Honesty:
Very