In Her Own Words
About her
I love travelling and seeing the world because it broadens the mind and creates happy memories. It's so fulfilling to visit new places and immerse yourself in the culture, discover the traditions, the cuisine, the wine, the music and join in with the people. I love romantic adventures with my partner. I love the outdoors (hiking, walks in the park). I also love cosy nights in watching a movie with a nice takeaway, or cooking at home. Nice to have teamwork in the kitchen with my partner (who's chopping the vegetables?).
About her ideal match
A smart, reliable, easy-going man who likes travel, adventure & appreciates culture, good food, wine & cocktails. I'm not into typical laddish types & their routine of football, pie & chips & drinking pints down the local pub with their mates.
Someone who believes in having that special connection; best friend/soul mate. I also love to have our own sweet silly things in common, our own language/in-jokes which we share. Good communication/understanding. A strong, everlasting love creates loyalty/solidarity/a sense of "we're in this together".
At this stage in life I feel the need to be clear that I'm dating for a relationship leading to a marriage/kids.
It doesn't mean I want to rush into anything. Of course, 2 people should get to know each other naturally without pressures, but dating for marriage is different from dating to simply find a casual boyfriend/girlfriend. The difference being that the ultimate goal of marriage/family is always in your mind.
I want a man who also wants this...who is prepared to be clear on who he is, what qualities he is looking for in another person, & what qualities he is looking for in a marriage with kids.
Another thing I should mention: I'm settled in UK but from Malayasia (a Muslim country). I'm totally westernised & don't practice Islam at all (I drink & also like the occasional "social" cigarette when having a nice cocktail somewhere).
I'm from a laid-back modern westernised family. But because our country is Muslim and I am looking for marriage, in order to be accepted in my culture, it's essential that you're capable of going to a mosque & doing a simple process to get a Muslim conversion certificate.
Don't be freaked out, it just means you're Muslim on paper & we can have a traditional wedding with my family. I am non-religious & prefer a non-religious guy.
If you feel you just cannot do this, then this would be a deal-breaker from the outset.
Sorry for the information overload, but it is important to be clear/upfront about this before any conversations start.
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About her
Country of origin: |
Malaysia | |
Location: |
Manchester, Greater Manchester, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
41 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Black | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Yes | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Occasionally | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Financial services | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
Asian | |
Home language: |
Malay | |
Other languages: |
Chinese; French; Spanish | |
Religion: |
Muslim |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 200 miles of postcode district M1 (Manchester) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
35 - 45 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 3" (191cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
Yes | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Occasionally; Regularly | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Executive / Management; Financial services; Food / Catering; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Self-employed; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Pleasure |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Easygoing; Funny; Generous; Happy; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; History; Mystery; Self-help; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Card games; Cooking; Internet; Music; Reading; Shopping; Singing |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Badminton; Bowling; Dance; Hiking; Pool; Running; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
