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Aylia

55 – Greenwich, London, England

I've ploughed my own furrow - and it's been a blast - now seeking someone to share the journey

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Greenwich, London, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
55
Star sign:
Capricorn
Height:
5' 5" (165cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Ask me later
Hair colour:
Blonde
Eye colour:
Green
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Ask me later
Income:
Solvent
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Christian / Protestant

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Anywhere in Europe
Gender:
Male
Age range:
45 - 65
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 5" (164cm) - 6' 3" (191cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Other
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Any
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

Hi, my name is Aylia and for years I've been telling people I don't need a man in my life because I'm perfectly happy as I am.
I've had/have two different successful careers and brought up my daughter single-handedly (she's now 19 and at university) I've got friends, a supportive family, a nice home/lifestyle and I've had a number of satisfying shorter term relationships.
When I wake up in the morning l'm positive and look forward to the day.
But just recently I've been thinking...and have come to the conclusion it's about time I let someone else into my life. I've considered a dog, but as conversation and connection are really important to me, I guess a man would be more appropriate!
I'm not like other 54-year-old women - I think and behave differently, but that's not an accident.
But the one thing I've got in common with most people on the planet is that I have love to give and would welcome it being returned.
You might want to know that I inhabit the following contradictory personality traits: I'm confident yet shy, I'm sociable yet solitary, I'm worldly wise but occasionally na´ve, I'm complex yet clear and I'm a risk taker but I'm also sensible.
If this all sounds a bit high maintenance, I understand, but if it sounds intriguing, I look forward to hearing from you.

About her ideal match

My ideal match will have a big character and charisma to match. That certainly doesn't mean he'll be an arrogant, loud or pompous alpha male, it simply means he'll have the 'X' factor - a term that would be impossible to describe at this stage.
He'll be 'different' (in a good way), a maverick, someone who thinks out of the box and someone who thinks for themselves whilst making things happen for themselves and others. I don't consider myself a run-of-the-mill sort of person as I haven't followed the life path of most other women - therefore I've never really been interested in 'average' guys.
Although looks etc are not overly important to me, I do need to feel connection and chemistry with my ideal match as I'm not looking for another 'companion.'
I want a kind, courteous, caring, thoughtful and romantic man. Someone who has empathy and understanding and someone who doesn't moan or hold grudges.. My ideal match will also be warm, open and sensitive.
A deal breaker would be the following: someone who talks about themselves all the time and someone who smokes.

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More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Daring; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness
Fashion sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite colour:
Red
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Half full
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Medium; Curly
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks
Music preferences:
Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; World
Reading:
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally; I read magazines occasionally
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Non-fiction; Self-help; Travel
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; News; Reality shows
Movie frequency:
Once or twice a month
Movie preferences:
Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance
Interests:
Healthy living; Internet; Music; The arts; Writing books
Sport involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Aerobics; Athletics; Gymnastics; Hang- / Paragliding; Horse Riding; Running; Table Tennis; Weight training
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Doesn't matter
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Pastimes of choice:
Exercising
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Family size:
I've got a brother
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Like):
Dog(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking; Wealth
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
I'm non-practising
Dream home:
In the city
Politics:
Right of centre
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Curious; Optimistic; Excited
Honesty:
Extremely