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SparklingVerve

64 – Eastbourne, East Sussex, England

Seeking Chemistry & Magic & A Little Younger

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Online: Yesterday

Modified: 30 January 2021

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Eastbourne, East Sussex, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
64
Star sign:
Virgo
Height:
5' 7" (170cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
White
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Several times a week
Education:
Ask me later
Occupation:
Other
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 100 miles of postcode district BN23 (Eastbourne)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
52 - 61
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 11" (180cm) - 6' 5" (196cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school
Occupation:
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Political / Government; Retired; Self-employed; Science / Engineering / Research; Other; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Consultancy / Design
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

Chemistry is key, and it's either there or it isn't.
My wish list: A taller (5'10ish min), younger, professional guy with his own home, who doesn't have pets, obvious body art, or piercings. Baggage is fine, we've all got some, so if you claim no baggage, and/or to be easy going etc., we're unlikely to be a match.

I'm accomplished, intelligent and interesting, with a youthful demeanour, and I need similar in a guy, please. And a little younger is my preference, and certainly no older (no point pretending). I work for myself from home, which among other things involves trawling the internet and analysing a broad range of things, so I spend a fair bit of time at my computer. I don't have hobbies as such, I enjoy a walk, love fresh air, but am not overly into fitness. I tend toward the serious, but I also have a silly side and a whacky sense of humour. I don't cook (beyond basic dishes), as I don't enjoy it, but I eat pretty healthily. I don't especially like shopping. I watch some TV, but days can go by without my switching it on. I'm not on Facebook. I enjoy reading and writing (have penned a few things).

I'm unconventional as life dealt me different cards, and thus a man who is looking for a twozy set-up with shared mealtimes, etc, is not for me. I'm utterly loyal and monogamous and would want the same but I've lived on my own for far more years than I've lived with a man, so a live-in arrangement, while I wouldn't rule it out entirely, is not an obvious fit. So I need someone different: Someone accomplished, discerning, honest and intelligent who's also good in the the sack would be great :) And who has also lived on his own for a while, and is not fresh out of a relationship.

Please also note that while I don't doctor or enhance my photos, my wrinkles don't seem to show, but I do have some. I keep my weight around 9' 6lbs (132 pounds).

Lastly, at the right time, I would want to know a guy is free of any STIs before we jumped into bed. It takes ten minutes to get a check.

Thank you for checking me out!

About her ideal match

I'm attracted to men who are accomplished and intelligent and who have an edge. My Mr Hopefully Long-Term is unlikely to have a regular type of job. He will more likely consider himself different, unconventional, hard to put in a mould.

Turnoffs for me, in no particular order:
I move swiftly on when I see a photo of a guy:
a) holding a fish (What's that all about? "Thelma, I'm home" lol)
b) half-dressed or sloppily dressed
c) eating

Also, if your profile is largely blank and/or contains lines such as 'anything you want to know just ask' please pass me by. If you cannot be bothered or are unable to write a few sensible and intelligent sentences about yourself, I am not interested in engaging with you. The same goes for profiles without photos, or with photos that are clearly old and not a genuine reflection of how you look now. My photos are recent, main one taken Jan 2021.
Poor grammar and punctuation is a turn off for me. We all make mistakes and can write haphazardly, so to speak, when in a rush, but if you cannot string a sentence together (unless there's a good reason, e.g. you're dyslexic) we would not be a match. In a similar vein, the following do not constitute a message, lol.

'Hi'
'Hello'
'u ok?'
'u wear skirts?'

You may be thinking to the effect 'No wonder she's single' lol, but I don't want to waste anyone's time.

Finally, if I don't respond to a message, it may be due to distance being too far and/or I do not feel there would be sufficient common ground and/or chemistry.

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More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Sarcastic
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
Opportunity
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Ambitious; Daring; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Outspoken; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Hope; Humility; Sexiness
Fashion sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Depends what's in it
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Medium
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Body art:
Pierced ears
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for drinks
Music preferences:
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco
Reading:
I read books regularly
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Business
TV habits:
I rarely watch television
TV programmes:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Reality shows
Interests:
Politics; Writing books
Sport involvement:
Not involved at all
Sports:
Walking
Food
Cooking:
I cook rather than starve
Food:
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I work at home
Time online:
I check in once a day
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I don't like pets
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Power; Wealth
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Work fewer hours
Religious attendance:
Doesn't apply
Dream home:
Castle in Scotland
Politics:
Right of centre
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Curious
Honesty:
Very