In Her Own Words
About her
I am not the type who describes herself, rather I am a creature of great depth. My life is my choice. I have chosen my freedom, with an unusual lifestyle. This includes polyamory in heart, mind and body.
I am a deeply sensual creature but noticed lately that my sensuality sadly is often the single attraction for men, undervaluing that I am a woman with passion and feelings. It is a fine balance, between heart and body, and I would like to enter in new connections with more heart on both sides.
I trust in absolute truth to myself and my partners, therefore open and honest communication isn't just an empty word in my world but something fully practised. Do you have an awareness of your feelings? Do you sit with them and contemplate why they rise and fall?
My mind craves eternally stimulating conversation (mainly philosophy, psychology, literature etc.). I am a creative in words and visuals (my art is on my website [@]) - my art and my love life often become one. But I am also a creature of great intellectual depth and broad emotional awareness, living a non-hierarchical solo poly lifestyle. That's why it is important that others fully understand their own needs and own life situation before they approach me. Are you only poly in body and thought, or also in heart?
Please note, I dont date married men anymore as this involves a different dynamic that I dont engage with.
About her ideal match
Always curious, wanting to know more and ask questions. Know what you want and most of all, know that you know nothing. Openness and absolute truth don't come easy to many people but it is what I live.
"When you require another individual for your survival, you are a parasite on that individual. There is no choice, no freedom involved in your relationship. It is a matter of necessity, rather than love. Love is the free exercise of choice. Two people love each other only when they are quite capable of living without each other but choose to live with each other."
The man I seek lives and gives freedom.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Gloucester, Gloucestershire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
38 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
Ask me later | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 200 miles of postcode district HR4 (Hereford) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
39 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Virgo | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Pleasure |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Daring; Independent; Intelligent; Philosophical; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Honesty; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A music concert; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
History; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
Movie frequency: |
Never |
Interests: |
Gardening; Music; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Sculpting; Sewing; Singing; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sports: |
Archery; Chess; Gymnastics; Snooker; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I always cook at home |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I DO have a bed in my office! |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Power; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Honesty: |
Very |