In Her Own Words
About her
I am outgoing, independent, confident, fun to be around (so I’m told), self-deprecating, stylish, creative, and neither look (nor feel) my age. Brought up in Surrey, I have lived in London since leaving college, aside from 5 years working abroad in France and Greece. I am self employed in a job that I enjoy and which allows me a great deal of flexibility and to be able to work from anywhere. I make an effort to keep fit and in shape. I regularly attend the gym, do pilates, am a fair weather cyclist, keen skier and body boarder... I have recently taken up Padel tennis and am loving it. I love cooking, reading, drawing, painting, fashion, live music, socialising, and travel. I also love puzzles and have become a Wordle addict!
I live alone, my sons are now independent(ish). I am looking for friends with whom to enjoy eating out, theatre, travel or just hanging out together. I believe the basis of every great relationship is friendship. If the chemistry is right, then hopefully it might lead to something more.
My photos were all taken within the past few years; the most recent is the main profile photograph, taken in February 24 and the one in a red hoodie in March 24.
I am attracted to funny guys, so if you are extravert, entertaining, sporty, a big kid, honest, and can make me laugh, I would really love to hear from you!
About her ideal match
My ideal match would be kind, funny, sporty, and honest with an upbeat personality, positive outlook, vitality, charisma and a great sense of humour, who is active and shares some of my interests and can make me laugh.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Croydon, London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
65 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Private school | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district SE19 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
49 - 64 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African descent; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent | ||
Home language: |
English; Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; French; Gaelic / Irish; Greek; Italian; Norwegian; Portuguese; Spanish; Swedish; Other | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Optimistic; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Honesty; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Trendy (I wear whatever's new and now) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Dance / Disco; R&B / Soul; Reggae |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Internet; Music; Painting; Reading; Sewing; Shopping; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Cycling; Skiing; Surfing; Tennis; Walking; Water skiing |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Long hair |
Turn-offs: |
Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Retirement plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |
