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SouthernComfort

65 – Southampton (Ocean Village), Hampshire, England

I can resist everything except temptation.

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Online: More than 6 months ago

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Southampton (Ocean Village), Hampshire, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
65
Star sign:
Leo
Height:
5' 7" (170cm)
Body type:
Athletic
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Ask me later
Eye colour:
Green
Relationship Status:
Separated
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University / College student
Occupation:
Retired
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French; None
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 40 miles of postcode district SO14 (Southampton)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
52 - 65
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 11" (180cm) - 6' 4" (194cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Very Attractive; Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Greying; Grey; Bald; Shaved
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Not important at all
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Any
Education:
University / College student; Further education; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

Poet William Cowper wrote “Variety is the very spice of life, that gives it all its flavour.” Familiarity and spontaneity describe my life with people always sitting centre stage - what's life without sharing and caring?

I am intelligent, well-travelled, cultured, open minded, romantic and tactile, kind and joyful; excited by life, love and romance.

Having left behind a career in the world of City corporate mayhem, I now enjoy spending time with old friends and new; I have a broad love of music, theatre and film, antique 'hunting' (sometimes buying!), all-weather walking, relaxing in a cosy pub, just meeting for a coffee or sharing fine dining in a beautiful setting - I can dress up and dress down all on the same day! I simply like being at ease with people and am told I am easy to get along with.

Then there's travelling; in my time, I've stood aloft Ayres Rock, trekked the pathways of the Grand Canyon, absorbed the panoramic night vista of Hong Kong, enjoyed the cuisine of Singapore and admired the beauty of Bali. Nearer to home, France and Italy are still favourite destinations!

At home where my heart resides, I am an accomplished cook who enjoys entertaining but also like a TV dinner, a good book with a coffee, a glass of wine whilst playing music or a snuggle up with someone special. I am known for my interior design often with a project in hand for myself or friends and of late I have taken up photography and French (again!) – that well-known combination?!

I am passionate about fitness and well-being! Shona Virtue's philosophy of shaping our physique, motivating our minds whilst having fun is part of my everyday. I train several times a week enjoying my fitness with an attitude of "age is just a number" and an ethos of "if something is worth doing then give it full attention and do it well!"

This year I brought together my passion for music with fitness, taking up Latin dance. I Salsa - ok, work in progress - and I'd love to dance more having realised, however, that it's no fun to dance on your own!

About her ideal match

I’m looking for a kindred spirit to share my time, my space and some of my interests. Someone with integrity and mutual respect for what is important to each other; to share and care but to be independent and trusting in our individuality without feelings of insecurity. I guess I am saying, not to stifle each other’s interests and qualities but rather to breadth in fresh air, together.

We all have a past which makes us who we are today. We all, also, have a common desire to find that very unique and unanswerable pull of attraction, mutual appreciation and understanding; there's nothing quite like that glancing smile, a knowing look, touch of a hand or spontaneous moment of private laughter when we are seemingly lost in a crowd - that is chemistry!

We all know that this is not found from looking at each others photographs or reading profiles or comparing ratings. It takes a willingness to look beyond our 'tick list' and to challenge our expectations starting with that innocent on-line dating message or one-liner that leads to a meeting that takes us on our road of discovery.

I'm not expecting you to like everything that I like nor to conveniently live locally to me (if you do, then that's great!) but I am hoping that we can take each other into our 'everyday' and entice each other into our individual worlds of interests and passions whilst sharing a genuineness of heart to care and to know how to show it. Humour is important; if all else fails then to laugh at life and ourselves often seems a great antidote for rising to its challenges and idiosyncrasies!

Thank you for reading to the end – it’s long but it's very genuine! I know you are out there; take the moment, take a chance and make contact with me and let the rest happen....

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More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Favourite colour:
Orange
Is the glass half full or half empty:
What glass?
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Well-behaved
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul
Reading:
I read books occasionally
Books:
Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Self-help
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance
Interests:
Cooking; Healthy living; Music; Photography; Shopping; The arts
Sport involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
Aerobics; Dance; Gymnastics; Weight training
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Doesn't matter
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I work only a few hours a week
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time online:
I check in once a day
Family size:
I've got a sister
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Dog(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
I'm non-practising
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic
Honesty:
Extremely