In Her Own Words
About her
Despite appearing fairly neat and self-controlled, I have a creative, colourful, messy mind and an irreverent sense of humour. I’m ruled by the heart and am probably rather friendly, enthusiastic, tactile, dramatic and forthright for an English woman! Stupidly kind-hearted and, I think, pretty non judgemental, I could be described as ‘old-fashioned’ in some ways - I have an ambivalent relationship with technology, have little interest in celebrity culture, smart phones or social media. I am very keen on food and often plan holidays/ trips around gastronomic experiences - sometimes simple ones though ... Not just fussy stuff. Also love reading (classics/ travel/ fiction) and just starting to enjoy film again (mostly World Cinema). Sometimes I paint, although very little opportunity right now....
A (male) friend told me I should write that I have a talent for enjoying life! I didn't know that was a talent.... Like to do all the usual things, travelling (especially Italy and the Balearics) discovering new places, love antiques/ flea markets, trips to the countryside, hosting a party. I really enjoy family time ...
As a teenager I was a party animal but since my mid twenties life has become quite serene - but I do still long to dance....
I have two gorgeous kids (one still a toddler) who come as part of the package (and there is an ex husband who I am on good terms with while maintaining a healthy distance from) so the majority of the time I have company. My life is a bit loud and chaotic at the moment but this is of course a temporary thing… I am a full-time mother right now (which I love) but I worked in business in the Heritage sector before kids.
About her ideal match
I would like to find a life partner but I’m not in too much of a hurry. I don’t really want to make assumptions about who would make a good partner for me but if I have to … I think I am suited to someone with a laid back attitude and relaxed pace of life who does not take themselves too seriously and can enjoy the small things in life. Laughter is very important to me and I hope to find someone who shares a similar (dry, witty, caustic?) sense of humour but I value kindness highly as well.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Oxford, Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
46 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Auburn | |
Eye colour: |
Grey | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Spanish | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
37 - 55 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 6" (167cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Easygoing; Funny; Happy; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Shy |
Valued qualities: |
Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Humility; Humour; Kindness |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV habits: |
I prefer listening to the radio |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Acting; Cooking; Gardening; Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Writing books |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Cycling; Dance; Ice Skating; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
What's work? |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |