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Epimethean

49 – Croydon (South London), London, England

Wildlife lover seeks good headline that isn't really corny

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In His Own Words

About him

I asked my friends to describe me; one said I was awesome. Good going, friend number one. Another friend described me as "an intellectual with a poet's soul". That friend is also a keeper! I'm a polymath (or the cool new term: multipotentialite) - I am interested in everything but thus don't tend to spend too much time on any one hobby. I spend a lot of time thinking about the human condition, the nature of the universe, the meaning of life, etc but tend to talk about more mundane stuff unless asked.

I am a City professional, but my real thing is wildlife care and rescue, which I started a few years ago after a fox with a broken tail was scavenging for food in my garden in winter. It's a long story and I'll tell you all about it on our first date if you like. Saving innocent lives means a great deal to me.

I have recently started a tiny (1 animal) wildlife sanctuary, and this year (2021) I'll be looking to sell up and buy somewhere with some land so that I can have a few more animals and give them loads of room to have the best life possible.

I came out of a very long relationship a couple of years ago and the past couple of years have been hard but have forced me to rebuild myself; I genuinely think I'm the best version of me I've ever been. Now I'm looking for a person, or people, to share that with.

Speaking of which, all my past relationships have been monogamous and I have been deeply loyal in all of them. I have decided that I am open to, as the phrase goes, either monogamy or non-monagamy. Basically - I'm flexible on relationship type, as long as it's ethical and we agree it up front.

Note that due to the wildlife stuff, I am a very busy person and cannot casually take evenings or days off. I am working on ways to improve that, but it's definitely limiting and I want to be clear about that up front. My very kind friends think I'm right to address this up front, but tell me that all the good stuff I bring should more than make up for it. Aww.

About his ideal match

I like smart, passionate, honest women who care about stuff. I am heavily into compassion and find it genuinely sexy. I am sex-positive and enjoy expressing love physically, and experience tells me that I won't have a satisfying relationship unless my partner shares that trait (although there's more wiggle room in a non-monogamous setup, I'm sure).

If you are a big animal lover, particularly wildlife, we're likely to get on well. I have over the past months actually seen a couple of profiles saying they'd love to open a wildlife sanctuary. You mad people... talk to me!

I don't care about your political persuasion, referendum voting habits etc and consider these very poor clues to character and compatibility. Talk to me, and let's find out if we get on.

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Croydon (South London), London, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
49
Star sign:
Pisces
Height:
5' 10" (178cm)
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Dark Brown
Eye colour:
Hazel
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; Something casual
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
Maybe
Daily diet:
Vegetarian
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Financial services
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French
Religion:
Agnostic

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district CR5 (Coulsdon)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
30 - 41
Star sign:
Any
Height:
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 10" (179cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Any
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me
Want children:
Yes; Maybe
Daily diet:
Vegetarian; Vegan; Hindu diet
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about him

Personality
Intelligence:
Highbrow
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Sarcastic; Sensible; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Hope; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Long; It has its moods
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body hair:
Average
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Instrumental; Latin; New Age; Opera; Rock
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly
Books:
Crime; Fantasy; History; Horror; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help
TV habits:
I tend to watch cultural programmes
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Sport; Talk shows
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Action; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns
Interests:
Acting; Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Internet; Meditation; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; Singing; Voluntary work; Woodwork; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sport involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
Archery; Boxing; Martial arts; Rugby; Tennis
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
Other
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Hectic
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Visiting a museum or gallery
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Family size:
I've got sisters
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Have):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish
Pets (Like):
Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious attendance:
Doesn't apply
Dream home:
In the mountains
Politics:
Right of centre
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic
Honesty:
Extremely