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Survivor_123

56 – Winchester, Hampshire, England

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Modified: 07 December 2019

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About him

Country of origin:
Malaysia
Location:
Winchester, Hampshire, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
56
Star sign:
Sagittarius
Height:
5' 10" (178cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Greying
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Executive / Management
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
None
Religion:
Agnostic

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 40 miles of postcode district SO23 (Winchester)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
50 - 63
Star sign:
Any
Height:
4' 11" (149cm) - 5' 11" (181cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Disabled; Curvaceous
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel
Has a photo:
Moderately important
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

Shy Northern Irishman left Belfast at 18 to come to university in Southampton.After graduation, immediately pursued a professional qualification. 20+ years of married life and 2 kids followed. It took me several years to come to terms with the effects of a stroke that stopped my career in its prime and forced me to re-evaluate life. I'm lucky to have an understanding employer. Despite the challenges of having only one working arm and a dodgy leg, I have managed to get fit again by going to the gym, not for my vanity, but to get my hearts and lungs as healthy as I can - I push myself quite hard. Also I've discovered the fantastic game of bowls - great for fitness, very sociable and great fun all round for men and women. For mental health, I do bits of voluntary work and could do more. I have dabbled in Open University courses over recent years and often wonder now how I ever had time to work! I also set up an investment club with a couple of friends, which gives us an excuse to meet up every few months to have a beer and a meal and discuss what to invest in next. Also a cabal of elderly ladies have taught me to play bridge, always followed by lashings of hot tea.
I have 2 kids in their twenties both working and in their own homes. I love seeing them.
I love eating food and would take great pleasure in having a dining companion.
I'm not sure what to expect from this exercise but feel I'm ready to move on.
I do walk with a stick, but might be able to get rid of that if I had a hand to hold. I've flown by myself to Canada a few times, where I have a sister, and taken the occasional cruise. There are lots of places in England, Wales and Scotland I'd like to visit and am reluctant to do so without a companion.

Overall, I'm a very lucky man, fortunate enough to live in a great city and keep myself fairly busy. All photos from 2019. Have lost weight since the photo in Mottisfont gardens (National Trust place).
I do not want a carer but I do need someone who cares.

About his ideal match

I'd love to meet someone with whom I can have coffee and dine out. A bucket list of UK locations for day trips/short breaks would be great with a companion. It is not the travel that appeals but rather the chance to meet a lady that I can admire, respect, cherish, fancy(!), and learn to love.

While I do feel "chemistry" counts for a lot, I also feel it may take time to get to know someone.

Age is not important to me - it is what you are like as a person that will seal it for us. If you like to smile and laugh a lot that would be a real plus for me and I'd readily reciprocate.

If we were to meet and end up as friends I'd be delighted. Anything more would be a real blessing. I had never heard of a "player" until I signed up here but I'd prefer someone with some old-fashioned values who'd like to get to know me.

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Personality
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Personality traits:
Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Quiet; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience
Fashion sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body hair:
Hairy
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Heavy Metal; Jazz; Latin; R&B / Soul; World
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines occasionally
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; History; Non-fiction
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Documentaries; News; Sport
Movie preferences:
Action; Art Films; Drama; Independent; War
Interests:
Board games; Business news; Card games; Computer & video games; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Music; Voluntary work
Sport involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Bowls; Football (Soccer); Rugby; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a week
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I don't work
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Family size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Turn-ons:
Intelligence
The deep stuff
Religious attendance:
I'm non-practising
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Excited
Honesty:
Very