In His Own Words
About him
I'm a male INFP-A/ENFP-A seeking a complementary female.
That says it all really. I’m a pretty close fit to my type. I have a youthful approach to life. I like the sense of being fit and put quite a lot of work into staying that way. I love rowing and hiking and enjoy running.
I've been many things - IT consultant, journalist, business writer, software marketing guru, psychotherapist, life-coach - and have been self-employed most of my working life. That has been split between the UK and the USA (I'm a dual citizen) and now takes place in Poole and London.
I am a sapiophile, highly intelligent, and tend to be original in my thinking because I can't speak with conviction until I've thought something through.
As an explorer and a lifelong learner, I’m thrilled when I find something that interests me that I hadn't heard of before. I'm not a beach tourist. Take me abroad for two weeks without a very specific quest in mind and I'll stay in the hotel room and read.
I get bored incredibly easily so I'm constantly looking to expand ideas, feelings and activities up to and even beyond their logical conclusion.
Despite the seriousness of this statement I actually have a pretty good sense of humour, too.
About his ideal match
I’m searching for the woman who'll complement me, a woman whose independence and originality will be reassuring and happily surprising. You are clear as to your expectations and needs. Your quirks complement my own.
You take good care of your body and your mind, constantly learning and experimenting. You are exceptionally intelligent and deeply curious. Your career reflects your analytic mind and conscientiousness. You have a strong sense of fun and adventure. If I find you, you will find me a very attentive, loyal and supportive companion.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Poole, Dorset, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
78 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
6' 0" (183cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye colour: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
40 - 75 | ||
Star sign: |
Cancer | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
Interests: |
Healthy living; Internet; Reading; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Canoeing; Hiking; Rowing; Running; Sailing; Surf skiing/kayaking; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
