In His Own Words
About him
A gentle gentleman who likes to have fun whatever I do, including cooking, golf, theatre, cinema, reading, The Times crosswords and puzzles. I thoroughly enjoy writing rhyming poetry. I am happy in my own company but I get lonely and seek a companion to share fun things with; romance (which I am not looking for) would be a bonus. I couldn't look to date romantically with more than one lady at a time (imagine uttering the wrong name!) but still open to making new platonic friends.
I can suffer from inertia but easily persuaded into action by the right person. Happy shopping with a lady and, I think, pretty good at picking out things that would suit her ... I appreciate the necessity for matching shoes and handbags!
Definitely not a physical thrill seeker. Chartered accountancy was thrilling enough for me! Fear of heights forbids cliff edge walks and mountain climbing. Don't ski (in any form), ride a bike, sail or swim. But that still leaves so many pleasures to share.
An irreverent sense of humour and try not to take life too seriously; more emotional than might be imagined on first meeting. Chemistry? - a certificate to show I have it to GCE 'O' level - grade 'A', when it actually meant something!
Looking for the kind of relationship where 'assertiveness', which so many ladies appear to seek, is not a necessity.
Whilst I like dogs, I would not wish to share a relationship with one or more of them. I see a dog as the equivalent of a toddler who will never grow up thus requiring special attention and a restriction on activities.
I do not believe it should have to be the man who makes the first approach although tradition seems to demand it; have learned to deal with rejection but that doesn't soften its blow. I value the courtesy of a response to a message ..... after all, rejection can be worded nicely.
Whether we meet or not, I wish you every success in this daunting endeavour.
About his ideal match
Widowed in 2013; I have many happy memories but I carry no baggage (my luggage has wheels!). I suspect I am too old for another soul-mate; I think that special relationship takes many years to develop though love is always a possibility even if not expected.
It would be great to meet someone who wants to be happy and to see or to make people around her happy. She might be capable of making my heart pound with a simple smile or the touch of her hand in mine; we could be blissfully content in the knowledge of our bond and not require regular verbal reinforcement (although it would be most welcome whenever it is received). Still I am not actively seek a romantic liaison.
I have travelled enough of the world to be satisfied with what I have seen without an outstanding bucket list of places to go, but I would be happy to travel again with you if you are the right companion for me.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Uckfield, East Sussex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
74 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Most days | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Jewish |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district TN22 (Uckfield) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
58 - 71 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Contentment; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Half full |
Hair style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I have a moustache |
Body hair: |
Hairy |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Jazz; Opera; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Sport; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Music; Reading; The arts; Woodwork; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Backgammon; Cricket; Football (Soccer); Golf |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |