In His Own Words
About him
I work in higher education as a technology-enhanced learning advisor at a London-based University. I love music; I have a BA in Music and perform both vocals and guitar. I enjoy spending my spare time with my friends playing games, going to gigs and music festivals, playing music, going to the cinema etc. I have two nephews who are extremely important to me and I spend many hours looking after them and playing with them. I have a good sense of humour and like to relax and have fun. I enjoy going for walks in the countryside and generally spending time in nature.
About his ideal match
A human bean.
I'm looking for someone who I can enjoy spending time with. Ideally they would be a relaxed person with a good sense of humour and would value friendships and family. Music is an important part of my life so I would like someone who I can share that with.
What His Friends Say
Niki said...
Toby is well and truly one of the best people I know. I've known him for over a decade now and I cannot imagine my life without him in it. He is an extremely kind, generous and selfless person. He's the person who will go out of his way to give you a lift to work when your car gets written off and you're too injured to drive a hire car. He's the person who will give up his bank holiday weekend to help you lay a patio. He's the person who will randomly show up with food and drink to celebrate your new job. He's the person who will sit and listen to you whilst you bitch about the same thing for the millionth time. He will always do his absolute best to make those around him happy. He's one of my absolute best friends and I love him dearly. It's an honour to know him and to be a part of his life.
About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
High Wycombe, Buckinghamshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
44 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
6' 1" (185cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district HP10 (High Wycombe) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
30 - 45 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite colour: |
Other |
Hair style: |
Short; Curly; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body hair: |
Light |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Punk; Rock |
Reading: |
I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; News; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Internet; Music; Politics; Shopping; Singing; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Camping; Football (Soccer); Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
