In Her Own Words
About her
I'm missing grown-up company to share life's ups and downs - or just hang out with, even if it's lounging on the sofa on a rainy day with the weekend papers. I'm fiercely self-reliant, but also loving and loyal when it's earned and returned. Also smart, pretty, and sweet, and gentle, and tender, and refined, and lovely, and carefree...
I have two teenage children who grow more independent every day, meaning my days of pretending to understand online gaming and queuing for hours outside music venues to get barrier are coming to a natural end. I'm happy with my own company but there's only so much yoga and iPlayer a girl can take in one day.
Note I'm not divorced as I never married, but have been separated for three years.
About her ideal match
Comfortable in your own skin. You know the measure of a person is not how fast they drive, but how they treat other people.
Ideally: the hot priest from Fleabag; Indiana Jones; Kristin Scott-Thomas; Thor; Uma Thurman in Even Cowgirls Get the Blues; or Adam Hills.
Realistically: someone to unwind with who makes my heart rate rise a little. Oh, and who can bring me a cup of coffee in the morning before they expect me to form coherent sentences.
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Abingdon (Oxfordshire), Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
52 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Media | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district OX14 (Abingdon) | ||
Gender: |
Female; Male | ||
Age range: |
46 - 58 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 6' 10" (209cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Other; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism; Retail | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Independent; Intelligent; Optimistic |
Valued qualities: |
Honesty; Hope; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
A leather biker's jacket |
Hair style: |
Curly; Wild |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Cycling; Swimming; Triathlon; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Long hair; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |
