In Her Own Words
About her
Fun-loving, confident, thoughtful, curious, generous, tactile, creative, capable - happy to turn my hand to most things & love a challenge! On the downside (yes, I am aware of my ‘bad points 😆) I’m a perfectionist, so am hard on myself as well as others!
I enjoy travelling to far flung destinations but am also keen to explore the UK further.
I lived in the Middle East for 5 years & aside from the whole wonderful experience, I met & made several lifelong friends from various continents.
I also spent time volunteering & teaching EFL to young Buddhist monks in Laos which was another amazing experience (penultimate photo)
I enjoy reading, history, walking, cooking, dining out, theatre, art, galleries, house renovation/design, playing bridge & social get togethers with family & friends.
I’m not particularly sporty (unless you include cards & board games 😆), although I would always encourage & support a partner who is.
I want to make the most of my life & hope to share whatever’s to come with a special someone; to love, laugh & hold hands while enjoying new & interesting experiences & adventures.
I have much to offer & share with the right person & I’m sure you’re out there - somewhere!
Main photo was taken in 2022, the next 2021, 2020 & so on back to 2013 (with my nieces & nephews). I probably should take a current photo, although I’m sure I haven’t changed too much since last year (but then I would say that!🤪).
But at least you can see how I’ve aged (& added a few pounds 😩) over the last 10 years!
I should also like to mention (& this is only because I have noticed that some gentlemen put ‘non-negotiable’ to people who don’t have children 😳) that I very much wanted children, & always imagined that I would have them. Unfortunately it wasn’t to be, although I am known for my love & affection towards children &
It is something that I really miss. I would very much look forward to sharing any potential partner’s offspring - & hopefully their grandchildren too!
About her ideal match
A great sense of humour is an absolute must! Someone who is outgoing, confident; open and honest. They are kind and caring and always thoughtful and mindful of others. I would prefer to meet someone who is retired - or who at least has plenty of time to travel and enjoy life and not be tied to his job.
I am very independent and not looking for someone to take care of me either physically (tho I do have a pair of dodgy knees 😩) or financially - and would prefer to meet somebody in a similar position (hopefully without the dodgy knees!).
But a like-minded sense of humour always tops my list!
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Hitchin, Hertfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
68 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district SG5 (Hitchin) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
63 - 73 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Retired | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite colour: |
Other |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Depends what's in it |
Hair style: |
Medium; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Blues; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Internet; Reading; Sewing; Shopping; The arts |
Sports: |
Archery; Backgammon; Dance; Shooting; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I don't like pets |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |