In Her Own Words
About her
UNAPOLOGETICALLY - imperfect female recruiting for equally flawed :-)
A true romantic at heart I am looking for a partner of around my age or younger to ensure our energy levels are matched - I have a lot of energy!
Gentlemen (& aspiring undergraduates), I am playful, witty, mischievous, adventurous, seductive; and while the idea appeals to make friends and meet activity partners, I am not averse to a "full relationship". That said, I would like to get to know you first, so do not expect the "full" part of that relationship to happen within our first couple of meets, please.
I appreciate languages, banter and wit, yet I am not into endless message exchanges but prefer to meet in person quite early to see if that elusive chemistry is there. Not fond of receiving "saucy" initial messages (trust me, they are so not original or sexy!) once we know there is a mutual "sizzle", I am cool with allowing things to evolve at a pace with which we are both comfortable.
So who am I?
An intelligent and kind blonde (yep, they do exist!) who is loving life through good company, music, dance and via exploring new interests.
I work full-time, value "play-time" for dancing, improving my chess game, travelling, meaningful conversations, skiing, visiting the theatre, opera, ballet, the gym, exploring new places, generally happy with trying most things and being open to life and people. My only non-negotiable? My passion for music and tango... you would need to enjoy music and be interested in dancing even if you are not currently a dancer.
The events of the past few years have taught me how little certainty there is in life so let's share happiness and kindness whenever we can. I' d rather be appreciated for my kindness, compassion and empathy than material matters. Let's chat and explore life with an appreciative enthusiasm and a grateful smile.
Yep, there is a fair bit more to me but hey, that is for you to find out.:-)
About her ideal match
You are a decent, HONEST man of genuine integrity and values - not a player. This includes being truthful about your age! I struggle to understand why people lie about their age ... you will get found out! And tbh if you lied to me about your age, it ruins any trust that could build up between us and as such it is such an instant and irrevocable turn-off!
I appreciate your good manners, warmth, humanity, protective kindness and ... nice clean breath! And I just love (unless there is a pre-declared situation of concern for you) that you are not frequently checking your mobile when we are on a date.Yep, some do on their first (and only) date! :-)
Seriously? Please be a fully grown-up and fun-loving man (incidentally, that is not about age but attitude), exude a kind, respectful approach to life and people, have the ability to genuinely listen. Perhaps you enjoy some of the things I enjoy, in the same way I will try and learn/ enjoy the things that you relish.
Like me, you chuckle and laugh but not at racist or outdated sexist jokes, like me you do not stereotype people into "THE immigrants", "THE environmentalists", "THE lefties" or "THE whatever" (fill in as appropriate) - you have your own mind and are not afraid to express it.
You are still reading? Good!
I have been told that some guys feel they are being approached for their "assets" - let me be clear that I am independent and not looking for financial security from you! It would be nice if we were in a similar position and could enjoy a reasonably comfortable lifestyle with some holidays and weekends away.
Still here? Fantastic - we may get somewhere!
Last but not least, if you are an ardent Tory supporter or worse, a Brexiteer (Seriously, just don't be!) you would have to have some explaining to do to win me over ;-) as I am generally more comfortable amongst the centrist/ left wing folks. That said, I did kiss a Tory once.... (still puzzling over what made me do that...:-)
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About her
Country of origin: |
Germany | |
Location: |
Ross-on-Wye, Herefordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
68 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
IT / Telecoms | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Austria; Belgium; Germany; Netherlands; Switzerland; United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
48 - 66 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
6' 0" (182cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African descent; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent | ||
Home language: |
English; German | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Funny; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Sensible; Stable; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite colour: |
Red |
Hair style: |
Long; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; Scottish; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Interests: |
Healthy living; Internet; Meditation; Music; Photography; Politics; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Dance; Flying / Gliding; Skiing; Swimming; Weight training; Yoga |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
