In Her Own Words
About her
My photos are recent, ranging from June 2021 to Summer 2022.
Hi, I'm Jen, a Bon Viveur, open minded about this dating malarkey! Difficult to take it seriously, but I'd like to. On that note, I don't stand people up or ghost them, as I wouldn't like that done to me.
I'm more composed than confident.
Independent, not a choice but let's say I have risen to the challenge. I'd like to face the next chapter with somebody emotionally mature and secure enough in himself to recognise my vulnerabilities.
I'm optimistic, whilst mindful it is easy to draw the wrong conclusion from a few paragraphs/photos. Take the words below with a pinch of salt, or skip them, as above all else I am sapiophile. Ha, am also capable of having bonkers moments, the ability to laugh at yourself is so attractive.
I am super low maintenance, never moody, but if it matters here's the blurb ....
I love an older guy who who looks after himself, or is blessed with great genes, who appreciates femininity and can appreciate me as a woman. I am very unlikely to be interested in somebody younger.
Friends say I am warm hearted, great fun, down to earth. I care about others, my moral compass is in full working order, influencing how I live my life.
Finding somebody to have fun with, make plans with, and in an ideal world grow old with would be amazing. But let's be realistic, it all starts with a brief chemistry meeting ....
Often described as elegant, fab company, intelligent, slightly quirky, with a wicked sense of humour. You'll find me educated, prudent, imaginative & with good taste but NEVER a snob. I have a tom boy side and no issues getting muddy and wet outdoors, where I am often found.
Love, connection, sexual chemistry and compatibility are out there for me somewhere.
Finally I would like to add I don't do botox or heels so high that I might break my ankle - leaving me unable to play tennis! I love sports, but am not obsessive.
Thanks for reading 💜
About her ideal match
Okay, this is a wish list, not a prescription.
Towards the top of my list is reliability and respect. I don't ghost, 'bench', 'cookie jar' or stand people up. Hopefully you are the same.
Attitude has always been more important to me than years. And anyway I'll laugh with you and in those moments we will grow young. Somebody who appreciates intelligence, loyalty and kindness and who thinks their lady should be cherished.
As Marilyn said 'If you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best'! Except I don't do drink/drugs like she did or suffer with depression.
You might recognise some of your traits: An optimistic gent, who keeps it fairly healthy. You dress and smell nice. You have a good work ethic. Add in charisma and I could well be putty in your hands! (a wish list remember)
Ideally you have some sporting interests. A shared interest in tennis, sailing or biking would be amazing but only a nice to have, because of course you will already have your own distractions. Being compatible can also mean both not minding your partner having their own interests. Or better still, discovering new things together?
I tend to get on well with less conventional guys. Connection is more important than circumstances. All caution could be thrown to the wind if the elusive chemistry were to take over.
We're not getting any younger so drop me a line ....
What Her Friends Say
Peter said...
Jen is a woman to be cherished and appreciated. If you are lucky enough to really get to know her, you'll soon realise very few can hold a candle. She's stunning, intelligent and funny. I briefly dated Jen about eight years ago. It's genuinely my loss that I squandered the opportunity! She deserves the best, I hope she finds it.
About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Chester (North West & London), Cheshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
55 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district L18 (Liverpool) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 71 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Realistic; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Humility; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Half full |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Mystery |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Cycling; Hiking; Mountain biking; Sailing; Scuba diving; Skiing; Tennis; Yoga |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Honesty: |
Very |