In His Own Words
About him
I was born and grew up in a small town in the north east of England. I work part time in a local leisure centre run by a small charity - my role is in admin.
I have my own home and car, though I am carer for my mother. In my spare time I enjoy listening to music, watching movies and going for walks. I love cities, country and coast.
I have BPD which means I can come across as negative and very self deprecating but once you get passed my defences, I have a great sense of humour.
About his ideal match
I am ideally looking for a man to share the rest of my life with. He needs to have enough similarities with me to make it work and enough differences to make it interesting. He should be equally comfortable joining me in activities as well as have his own interests. He needs to have quite a strong, dominant personality.
What His Friends Say
NidgeH hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Bishop Auckland, County Durham, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Bald | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Leisure / Tourism | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
43 - 63 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White; Bald; Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Muslim; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox; Sikh |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Caustic |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Funny; Loving; Melancholy; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Honesty; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite colour: |
Red |
Hair style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body hair: |
Light |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; Rock; Scottish |
Books: |
Fiction |
TV habits: |
I prefer listening to the radio |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Internet; Meditation; Sewing |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Fish; Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Retirement plans: |
Doing voluntary work |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |