In Her Own Words
About her
Firstly, all photos recent, within last year, and untouched, if I knew how to do that I’d have longer legs and bigger boobs! I prefer natural photos of others so decided not to go for the glamour approach. Obviously look, and act, much younger than my years (!)
Articulate, passionate, spontaneous with minimum baggage, tactile, the opposite of neurotic, and an enquiring mind.
People like to be around me - I think because I’m generally positive and smiley but I don’t suffer snobs or bigots.
I try to keep reasonably fit and go to the gym, walk regularly, jog slowly, yoga and ski (badly). I also love being on the water.
I don’t expect someone to enjoy all the same things but a tolerance of each others interests is essential.
I love travel and adventure - just got back from Africa camping and trekking - but I also scrub up well. I’m in town most weeks so I know my way round London restaurants and galleries.
About her ideal match
A spontaneous ‘let’s go’ type of person. Minimum hang ups, tactile, passionate, sorted financially, affectionate and with good family and friend relationships. You look after yourself and are likely to be younger than me? This is not set in stone at all but based on past experiences.
A slightly gung ho approach to life with enthusiasm and the ability to laugh at oneself is essential. I’m not interested in drama, sulking or anything less than a grown up, fun relationship.
I had my own business and tend to be drawn to entrepreneurial/self motivated people who are active and have interesting lives already. I like men whose actions speak louder than words, I’m very impressed by flat pack skills (or just pay someone to do it!) and a bit of common sense.
Deal breakers - people (not just men) who lie or who don’t follow through on promises made.
Please no grumpy old men, sulkers or those who admire Farage and Brexit!
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Chelmsford, Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
67 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district CM9 (Maldon) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
56 - 73 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Retired; Self-employed | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
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