In Her Own Words
About her
My friends would describe me as bubbly, extrovert, fun, caring, passionate, generous to a fault, independent and 'doesn't suffer fools gladly'!
I don't have many dislikes. I love hot sunny weather, kindness, most food, favourite travels are to Italy and the Middle East, but keen to explore more places in time.
Music tastes cover anything from Opera to Rock and a lot in between. I love live music in all its forms but especially when the beat of the music sinks right to the heart of me. I sing in a choir and am actively involved at my church. In my spare time I enjoy seeing my friends and spending time with my Mum, looking after my garden and hanging out with my two ginger moggies.
I have a very positive outlook on life and tend to see my life / glass as full, but not so full that it can't be topped up with fun and being challenged by new things.
The way questions are worded on here would imply I am anti-children, which is not the case. But at nearly 50 I am not in a position to be starting a family, but more than happy to embrace yours.
About her ideal match
I am looking for someone with kindness, positivity, someone who has accepted life's knocks but moved on, preferably taller than me, enjoys spending time with their friends, is independent and has a good work-life balance.
Hopefully you too will enjoy music, enjoy having friends round for dinner and conversation, and have your own hobbies and interests. I want to spend time with you and share interests with you, but I respect your independence.
Being a Christian isn't a deal breaker but respecting my faith is... Other deal breakers include genuine respect for my independence, my family and friends and what I have achieved in life.
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Kingston upon Thames, Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
52 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Financial services | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Italy; United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
45 - 58 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; White; Bald; Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
University / College student; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Pink |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Half full |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Heavy Metal; Jazz; Opera; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
Business; Crime; Fiction; Romance; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Soap operas |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Music; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Singing; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Rowing; Swimming; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Power; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |