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Mellitus

63 – Enfield (Palmers Green), London, England

Traveller seeks companion

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Online: Monday

Modified: 10 January 2024

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In His Own Words

About him

I have much to be grateful for: an affectionate 20 year old son, a large family and good friends, a comfortable home and deeply interesting work. Still, there remains at the centre that strangely shaped gap caused by the absence of an intelligent, humorous woman with whom to share it all. “It” being, variously, avid theatre and concert going (otherwise, why live in London?); long rural walks talking about everything and anything; interesting cuisine (I’ll choose Ecuadorian mountain food over five star from sheer curiosity); and perfecting the art of the lazy Saturday morning brunch.
And travel. I’ve spent the past 20 years working abroad, mostly in troublespots: Kosovo and Somaliland have their idiosyncratic charms, but I have a backlog of countries to visit for pleasure. Currently: Sardinia, Thailand, St Petersburg, the Norwegian fjords and a return trip to Tbilisi. Add your own dreams.
The pandemic put paid to the overseas work, and I’ve taken a London-based job in the civil service. So nine till 5ish, plus an honorary fellowship at King’s College London, but otherwise my time is my own – and yours too, if you want it.
So: we have pleasure in offering to our discerning readers one civilised, solvent male in good operating order, reliable and inexpensive to run, with several period features offering delightful prospects. Previously the property of one careless owner, and in need of a little care and modernisation, if his female relatives are to be believed. Early viewing strongly recommended, etc.
A friend tells me that in these profiles women adjust their age a little, as is their prerogative, and men lie about their height. (What do they do when they meet the woman, stand on a stepladder?) I am indeed six foot tall and the bearded photos are very recent. The jury is still out on that beard; otherwise, I’m sold as seen.

About his ideal match

I am looking for a long term relationship with someone who shows kindness, trust and honesty. Beyond that, surprise me.

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Enfield (Palmers Green), London, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
63
Star sign:
Virgo
Height:
6' 0" (183cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Light Brown
Eye colour:
Blue-Green
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Several times a week
Education:
University
Occupation:
Political / Government
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French
Religion:
Christian / Protestant

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 20 miles of postcode district N13 (London)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
47 - 65
Star sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Any
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Any
Education:
University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about him

Personality
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Leisure & entertainment
Sports:
Cycling; Sailing; Swimming
Food
Cooking:
I love it!
Food:
Doesn't matter
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time online:
I'm on several hours a day
Family size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family contact:
I see them as often as possible
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
The deep stuff
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Optimistic
Honesty:
Very