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Pemberley

78 – Sheffield, Yorkshire - South, England

Cosmopolitan English gentleman drawn to the Mediterranean

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Online: 23 January 2024

Modified: 23 January 2024

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In His Own Words

About him

I am English, but from knee high to a grasshopper I found myself mixing with people from different cultures, and was fascinated by the differences. And before long I explored the wide world out of curiosity and adventure. And went on doing so, for work and pleasure. But the part of the world whose culture really drew me in was not far away at all: southern France and Spain. I found French and Spanish rather easy to learn. I often wondered where my mum got her dark eyes and black hair from. And then I saw her surname on a signpost in the Vivarais (southern France). Anyway, I come across as a classic English gentleman, and I guess that’s what I am: I have the education, and the beautiful house and garden, to suit. More important, I have a very respectful attitude to women. That never changes, but my moods do: I can be charming and witty – or shy and awkward. I am vulnerable but resilient. I write decent poetry on a good day. I can’t sing to save myself, but I love to listen to other people singing – singing well. I love the outdoors and care a lot about the environment. My idea of heaven is sailing across the Aegean and stopping off every evening for a swim and some songs, with a guitar (played by someone else!). Haven’t done that yet, but canoeing down a Mongolian river, or the Wye, is great too and I have done that. Hill walking and working out keep me fit in between times. And working on my fifth book exercises my brain.

About his ideal match

The sort of woman who sets my pulses racing, is passionate and warm and physically affectionate – tactile. That is, more or less, Mediterranean. Would be great if she sang well, and/or danced. She should be artistic, in a broad sense. I would certainly want her on that Aegean trip. And any other. (NB: I don't take my trips on LSD! To quote Merle Haggard in Okie from Muskogie.) I couldn't promise not to get into bad moods from time to time but I could promise to get out of them with the help of a gentle stroke. One thing I won’t be wanting or needing from my lady is looking after. I can't think of anything much that I wouldn't like to share with her.

What His Friends Say

Liz said...

Andrew was widowed last year and is now ready to move on to the next phase of his life. He is a lovely person, sensitive, highly intelligent and always very interesting to talk to. He can be a bit serious and it would be lovely for him to find somebody to have some fun with and share special moments with. He loves being outside in the countryside, that's where he feels most relaxed so finding somebody who enjoyed going out walking could be ideal. He is good company and attractive and is available to make somebody feel special; he deserves somebody really nice because he is a really nice person.

About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Sheffield, Yorkshire - South, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
78
Star sign:
Capricorn
Height:
5' 11" (180cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Bald
Eye colour:
Green
Relationship Status:
Widowed
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Science / Engineering / Research
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French; German; Spanish
Religion:
Christian / Protestant

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in Europe
Location:
Within 100 miles of postcode district S11 (Sheffield)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
60 - 75
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 10" (179cm)
Body type:
Slim; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Arts / Music / Writing; Retired; Student; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Consultancy / Design
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Highbrow
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Intelligent; Loyal; Mild; Quiet; Shy; Thoughtful
Valued qualities:
Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Moderation
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Disappearing
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Facial hair:
I have a goatee
Body hair:
Average
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Scottish
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read magazines regularly
Books:
History; Non-fiction
TV habits:
I prefer listening to the radio
TV programmes:
Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; War
Interests:
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Politics; Reading; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sports:
Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Cycling; Hiking; Rowing; Sailing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Chinese; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
Lactose-free
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at work:
I work part-time
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Family size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Dream home:
House in the suburbs
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Nervous; Embarrassed; Excited
Honesty:
Very