In His Own Words
About him
tell them your plans ...........
not , actually my words , but would have said them had I thought of them .
whatever becomes of this process , one thing that will be true , is , unlike others fortunate enough for things not to have gone awry , we will not share a history ......we can however , confound the gods , by creating our own , new but lasting history . That would be my plan , a connected , creative , fun history . Obviously one can't plan a connection , but it can be hoped for .
Friends I'd hope would say I'm a good friend
I'm reasonably intelligent
I'm reasonably funny
I'm reasonably interesting
My friends are good friends
I like doing things
I like not doing things
I like motorcycling
I play golf
I have a boat
I like film
I listen to books
I'm a psychotherapist , but not in my spare time
About his ideal match
and if you're witty , have strong views about what you consider important , self assured , not afraid to be who you are.... have good friends , and not unattractive , ( but if you're the above you will be ), and you consider me worth a punt , then a connection seems eminently possible .
Oh , and you must love life , but be able to cry at its pain , and laugh at its absurdity.
I love thoughtfulness ....Just sharing bits of ourselves is for me one of the best things , a two , can do ....
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Oxford, Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Balding | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district OX2 (Oxford) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
50 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Most days | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Ruled by: |
Pleasure |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Intelligent; Optimistic; Philosophical; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Contentment; Honesty; Humour |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Hair style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body hair: |
Light |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Country & Western; Jazz; Punk; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Travel |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Politics; The arts |
Sports: |
Cricket; Football (Soccer); Golf; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Fine Dining; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Thai |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
