In His Own Words
About him
“WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU DID SOMETHING FOR THE FIRST TIME”
I have a positive outlook on life and enjoy making the most of every day. Friends describe me as intelligent, fun to be with, and always up for a laugh and a bit of friendly banter. At heart, I’m a happy, honest, romantic, and tactile man with a big heart and plenty of love to give to the right lady.
I’d say I’m attractive, kind, and a good listener — qualities that people often tell me they appreciate. My interests include the occasional sailing trip and a round of golf (though I’ll admit my game could use a little more practice!). I’ve always had a youthful outlook on life, and many are surprised when they hear my age.
I’m lucky enough to have a holiday home in Spain, and it would be wonderful to share it with someone special. I love simple pleasures — walking along the beach hand in hand, enjoying the sunshine and stopping at a cosy chiringuito, or wandering through the countryside and finishing with lunch at a welcoming country pub.
I also enjoy reading and listening to music, from rock through to the classics. I’ve always liked the theatre and cinema, though they’re far better when shared.
All of my photos were taken in the last two years — the one on the boat was taken in May 2025. And one last thing: I always reply to messages. I believe if someone has taken the time to write, it’s only polite to respond.
About his ideal match
I’m someone who values laughter, kindness, and the joy of discovering new places. I’d love to meet an attractive, bright lady with a lovely sense of humour who enjoys exploring—whether that’s a spontaneous weekend break or a journey further afield.
I’ve not yet taken a holiday on my own, but I believe those experiences are far more special when shared. What matters most to me is finding someone to spend quality time with, creating memories together, and enjoying life’s adventures side by side.
If you’re a lady who loves to laugh, has a warm heart, and is looking for a genuine connection, I’d be truly delighted to hear from you.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Leamington Spa (Warwick), Warwickshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
81 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Balding | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Spanish | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district CV34 (Warwick) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
67 - 73 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 7" (171cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English; Spanish | ||
Other languages: |
English; Spanish | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Depends what's in it |
Hair style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
None |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Motoring; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Politics; Reading; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Athletics; Backgammon; Boxing; Chess; Cricket; Football (Soccer); Golf; Motorsport; Rowing; Rugby; Running; Sailing; Squash; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |