In Her Own Words
About her
Petite, curvy, green-eyed, Psychologist. I work at the university doing stuff and things that mostly aren't that memorable to anyone but me, students and t'management. I have a lovely four-year-old boy, so if small humans aren't for you then this is the point you can probably click over.
I love reading and living a creative and joyous life (take an old fashioned not googled stab at the author of the quote). And I am mostly content and happy with my lot, but I'd bloody love someone to come home to who didnt immediately ask me for a snack and to put on Octonaughts. I'd also like someone to have some adventures with me (I'm desperate to go to Japan, and to get back doing scuba, but probably not anywhere near Fukoshima) and eventually to be part of us as a family.
I had side hustles before I had a child and a wonderful social life - I love a gallery, and a good arty movie, and occasionally would be found running down a muddy path or digging over the allotment. Now I just go to soft play and gently bang my head on a sticky table, amidst small human shrieking and having an endless array of slightly unrecognisable items of food stuck to handwash only garments.
Can you hack it? I'm worth it! Never married, rarely seen in a LTR, and I'd really like that to change.
About her ideal match
Goodness me - someone who understands love, and relationships, and sees that things can be complicated but not impossible, and who is willing to work on it. (An understanding that I have to parent, because if I don't then he should have been put in a jam jar and raised by wolves a while ago. The consequences of me not parenting will probably bring social services to the door.)
I'm all about the person really - can we make each other laugh, can we support each other, do I want to share a bed naked with you? I work hard to be financially OK, and to have a great career, and a stable and happy and welcoming home full of hygge. If you feel similar, and aren't still studenting up your life, or fully immersed in a set of star wars bed sheets, then lets have a chat.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Canterbury, Kent, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
44 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district CT1 (Canterbury) | ||
Gender: |
Female; Male | ||
Age range: |
38 - 58 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
Time |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Depends what's in it |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fiction; History; Romance; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Cartoons; Documentaries; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News; Reality shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Knitting; Music; Painting; Reading; Sewing; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Cricket; Sailing; Scuba diving; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
